What is something you never understood the hype for?
What is something you never understood the hype for?
Original question by @zachimusprime44@lemmy.world
What is something you never understood the hype for?
Original question by @zachimusprime44@lemmy.world
Watching sports. Playing them, I get. Watching? Never cared for it.
Same reason some people are into watching video games, talent shows or even actors.
There's loads of interest to be found in spectating a skilled display of any activity if you truly engage with it IMO.
I sometimes watch sports I've barely got a grasp of the rules for just out of fascination. GAA hurling is the most recent one I can recall getting sucked into for an afternoon.
i think there's some sports that are a bit acquired tastes, like I don't think the skill is immediately apparent the first time watching soccer, it's "just people running around". The strategy, technique etc is not immediately apparent. As opposed to like skateboard tricks or dry tooling/ice climbing competitions, which also have depth but are impressive without any prior knowledge, imo.
For me personally, it's the fan aspect I don't get. What's the point of projecting the us vs. them mentality on some team, "we won", and foflowing a team almost religiously, even building ones own identity around it, at least in part. In general, getting so emotionally invested in it, i don't understand. And it seems to mostly be a team sport thing.
There are dozens of us!
My country pretty much lives hockey, so people don't even ask whether you watch, it's assumed you do, so they'll ask stuff like "that match yesterday was awesome, right?" or directly reference something that happened in said match and then look at you like their mind can't comprehend someone doesn't watch hockey.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=msN7HNncHik&t=130s&pp=2AGCAZACAQ%3D%3D
Did you see that ludicrous display last night?
Conan O'Brien taught me how to deal with this situation decades ago.
Just say, "yeah, it was a real nailbiter!" that should buy you enough time to run away.
I can watch sports I don't play. Like football(both American type and what we call soccer), MMA(although I haven't watched anything in years), basketball(but only NCAA), hockey, the occasional baseball game. I'll make an exception for boxing and tennis, those are watchable even when I was deep into them. But golf‽ How does anyone watch that? I get walking the greens, and hitting it every few minutes yourself, but watching someone else just seems so boring.
Especially beyond the local level
I feel like this except for gymnastics, rythmic gymnastics, ice skating/dancing. Those are so entertaining.
Most superheroes.
EDIT: SJW admins confirms that I have indeed been downvoted by Superman and Spiderman
Same LMAO they're neat but I've always been so meh about them. And there's not even like new ones, it's always the same versions over and over again
It's been 30 minutes: time to reboot Batman again! Let's spend half the runtime of the movie rehashing his origin story just in case there might somehow still be one single person on Earth who doesn't know what Batman's deal is.
And there's not even like new ones, it's always the same versions over and over again
That's the worst part for me, there are thousands upon thousands of superheroes to make movies about, but it's always about the same ones. And you know what the sad part is? That every once in a while we get a different superhero with a cool movie/TV show and it either ends up becoming overused like Batman/Superman (e.g. Spider-Man, or Iron man) or it's completely dropped and forgotten (e.g. Jessica Jones, or Spawn)
Personally superhero movies aremy crowning achievement as far as willing suspension of disbelief goes.
It's fine that superheroes have powers and/or levels of combat expertise that would be impossible to achieve at their age WITHOUT superpowers. That's just how it is.
That they solve all major problems by punching people and acting as less murderous COPS, though? THAT'S what I have to force myself to overlook in order to enjoy the escapist silliness I'm watching 😄
i think because mcu and decu have played it too death with subpar garbage most of the time.
Twitter or any “microblog”.
I don’t understand why “following” a person/organisation would be interesting. I would rather follow a topic/community.
You can do that. But certain voices carry extra weight within communities.
I followed today's Formula 1 race on both Threads and Mastodon. Both platforms allow you to follow topics and that's what I did. But then I follow the people I find interesting as well
I was really rooting for Yuki the most and he lost so many places 😭
granted they did switch something up on him without preparing him for it but still
otherwise man I hope the FIA learns something from this race, it was bloody horrible. I would've had a more entertaining time going to church with my father and listening to someone preach for an hour and a half 🙃
Agree. When I was on Twitter I followed local bars, restaurants, and music venues for info on events and happy hours. No humans.
Apple, especially when it was considered a “luxury brand.”
I had an iPhone once, but realized I couldn't get a torrent client and decided I'll never use Apple again.
Also if you go to like China, you wouldn't be able to download a VPN app, whereas with Android, at least you can tell a friend who lives in the west to email you a .apk file.
Misinformed, this.
I only got an Iphone because using Android was severely limited in China and iPhones just work[TM]. VPN use is everywhere and normal there.
Most social media stuff.
Omg did you hear X did Y?
I guess I'm just old but I don't follow most. Even with dogpiling PirateSoftware. Yes, he's wrong and probably lied. I just don't get the hype around it. I'm happy that the hype led to Stop Killing Games getting enough traction though, that was nice.
I've never heard that name in my life, and I'm petty sure I don't care one way or another. My daughter gets wrapped up in internet drama and I can't for the life of me understand why. I am not drawn to drama but were I, there is plenty to be found in my own life. It's all so performative and pointless — the good and the bad.
I've been watching countless PirateSoftware drama videos since it's the clown that keeps on giving. I never bothered with drama channels on YouTube, so I never realized how much of an industry these people made out of it now that I keep getting recommend them. It's sickening.
Labubu.
And anything else in that category of blind bag collectables. Can't do anything with it other than decorating a shelf, spend more money than it's worth to get a whole collection and end up with too many multiples you can't get rid of, and fake rarity.
Yogi?
The notion that working in the Trades is so great. Coming from a guy did a lot of construction work, trust me it can really suck… also most of the guys in that line of work are assholes.
Most of my time in construction was during high school and early college and even then I recognized how many immature assholes I worked with!
I'm a software developer, but I spent three months chucking boxes in the back of a truck for General Motors one summer. Some days, my brain is fried after six hours at my job, but the physical labor work I could do for 12 hours and walk out feeling almost refreshed.
I sometimes wish I could go through a day of work just... doing. Not wracked with indecision or trying to figure out which tradeoff I won't regret in three weeks. The idea of going into a framed house and wiring up electric all day and then going home — without ever having done it or experiencing the downsides of course— it sounds really nice.
Of course my back and joints couldn't keep up at fifty like they did at twenty-two, and I met a bunch of functional addicts working that job and I wouldn't have wanted to get swept up in that.
That sounds nice because you've never done it. The horrors you encounter in people's homes and the creativity you have to come up with when doing the wiring are real.
So the most fun I ever had at a job was the after I graduated college and worked as chef, the work was so much fun, the waitresses were hot as hell, I was young in great shape and we all got off work at 1030 went out and partied. I had sex with really sexy women. All I did for about a year and a half was work out, work and hang out.
It really was an amazing year, but there was no future in it. I often think back nostalgically to that time.
I hear you man, one of the greatest aspects was I left work at work…
I grew up and have put my fair share of time in the trades. They do pay well but if you don't get out of the field, you trade your functioning body for money.
The one thing I can't wrap my head around is why everyone wants to work so much overtime. Even unions are rocking 50-60 hour work weeks and then claiming they treat you well. It's looked down upon if you only want to work 40.
most of the guys in that line of work are assholes
Can confirm
I think it's just some people have realised it pays well.
it destroys the body, and i only ever seen white people work in trades, so i suspect as to something to do with how they are only hiring those people too.
We're doing some renovation at the moment. We have a lead contractor who's managing all the trades 'cos I know nothing about construction.
Every trade we've had - electricians, bricklayers, drainage guy, plumber, carpenter, etc - come as a duo. There's a guy in his late 30s or older who does the thinking, and a kid in the late teens / early 20s who are effectively labourers and lift, push, carry, drill, dig, etc. The life of the senior guy in the pair seems to be pretty good and you know they're well paid. The kids are learning, and in 10 years time will have their own labourer.
Vtubers. I get the cute anime girl thing and I like fan art of them as I do other anime. But the models move wayyyyyy to exaggerated. It hits uncanny valley for me.
Also I don't get the parasocial relationship of chatting in a huge room of other followers. The chat is scrolling by at a hundred miles an hour and you're competing with everyone else for their attention.
I enjoy watching and chatting in smaller streams sometimes (like, a couple hundred in the chat at the MOST, usually < 100), it’s still parasocial, but tends to be WAY more chill. If it’s a stream with thousands of people, I don’t see the point in chatting, it’s passive entertainment at that point for me, personally!
It's 100% uncanny valley for me as well. There's a creator a like who doesn't like to appear on camera much (most of their main content is animated) and wanted to watch their livestreams. They used an avatar and it just weirded me out. It doesn't help that I'm seemingly way more sensitive than usual when it comes to audio and visuals being even slightly out-of-sync.
Supposedly vtubers need to make very exaggerated facial expressions irl in order to make sure the software picks it up and translates it onto the model, which is sometimes unsettling to people when they get in the habit of doing that normally.
I don't get the uncanny valley from them, but I guess that can vary from person to person, so that's fair.
The thing about chats being filled with too many people for any one person to matter I agree with. But that's a big streamer thing, not exclusively a vtuber thing.
Having multiple monitors. My boss now has three. One is dedicated to displaying their calendar the whole day.
This was not a response I expected, I thought the only people who didn't like multiple monitors were ones who never tried it lol
My peak was like 8 monitors, I'm at 6 now, but I can never go back to a single one long term. Whenever I do it temporarily for whatever reason it's agonizing
It’s taken me awhile to figure out, but I feel like the vast majority of people dismiss new things if they aren’t:
When doing work that requires multiple apps to be open or file explorers, web pages, and reference stuff then having a second is very convenient a lot of the time. Yeah, I could stretch it out on one giant monitor if it was an option, but two just makes it easy to keep track of what is where by having physical breaks.
At home it is great for having discord or other thing off to the side for communication or reference while playing games full screen on one monitor instead of needing to alt tab or use windowed mode smaller than full screen. If I did a more immersive driving/flying set up I would have three for the wrap around effect and a fourth for the extra stuff.
Both situations are for convenience.
I do know someone at work that has three but they handle the infrastructure and they often have multiple apps and browsers open for all the things that interact when troubleshooting and having it large and readable makes it easier to see what is changing and what isn't changing at the same time.
I didn't get it either until one class in high school (graphic design) had second monitors installed for all work stations halfway through the year. It's super useful being able to have reading material open on a vertical monitor! Only reason I don't have one still is because of very limited space (can't even fit a normal PC).
I did start using my TV as a second monitor recently though for putting Zoom meetings on it. I got tired of having to alt tab back to it every once in a while when doing stuff. TV sits behind my laptop so only like half the screen is visible but it's good enough!
Having two has definitely helped me, because most of my job is comparing what this thing says to what that thing says, but any more than that sounds like a bit much.
they're great if you do more than one thing at a time or need many programs open at the same time. anyone who regularly 'alt-tabs' to find or switch to a different window that they cannot currently see could benefit from another screen.
one wide or ultra wide display may not work as well, as some programs simply aren't made with that aspect ratio in mind. we have one program here that insists upon being in a maximized window--always. a lot of wasted space, even on a 16:9. that user has two 5:4 instead and loves that setup.
When I was a CAD draftie, multiple monitors were a godsend.
As someone who never understood multiple monitors, one day I just got a second one and now I feel working without a second monitor is limiting.
Having said that, I can’t see a use for a third monitor at all (not to say it’s completely useless. I’m sure some people find it useful).
Giant monitor >>> multiple monitors. For my internship of making 3D animations I had a really big monitor on my desk. I could fit every single viewport and UI element I ever needed on that screen!
I find multiple monitors better. The physical separation helps in creating mental separation, allowing me to focus on the currently important areas and ignore the periphery.
Started working on double monitor setup still in the 90s (two big ass crts) and never went back. I tried some ultrawides, but always default to 2x instead.
If I have one that's sufficiently big I don't need two. 24" is usually all I need. Helps to have 20/20 vision as well and use smaller fonts.
I love having a lot of desktop real estate. Instead of flipping through multiple desktops, I can keep everything in eve view all day long.
Any more displays than one and its gonna fry my brain. I can only keep attention to one at a time.
I love having two monitors at work, have been working this way for ~15 years now. At home, not so much, almost all the time one screen is enough.
My workstation at home only limits me to two, once I get a bigger space I'm going for three.
My boss has three two! I have two and it annoys me. I would rather have one large screen but I don’t rank enough to get one at work.
32 monitors is definitely excessive.
Dude either needs to streamline to two monitors, or pick up iRacing.
Only reason I'd have 3 monitors is for racing sims, but even then I usually use VR anyway.
Two is fine for most.
I have 3 monitors at work and at home. 2 isn't enough!
Three monitors is incredibly handy sometimes.
I have two, but one is in pirtrait mode. I use it when I need to read through a document but also can have two windows one above other to simulate a second monitor and use it like that at work fairly regularly.
"Reality TV". Could anythjng be more contrived yet obviously "make it up as you go along"?
I can't help but wonder how much the popularity of reality TV led us to where we are now. I don't just mean how the US president used to have his own stupid show, but how many people grew up thinking that "watching people create drama" is peak entertainment.
The same era saw the decline and demise of a number of educational channels and shows. Is it a coincidence? I don't know. All I know is there are lots of adults who grew up watching "reality" shows who now think politics are just a game to "win" and that when their opponents are upset, it's amusing. It's like the concept of empathy or working together don't even enter their minds. Everything is just for entertainment, no matter how serious it is or how many innocent people get screwed over by it.
This and 24-hour “news entertainment” are fully responsible for society’s woes, far as I can tell.
“watching people create drama”
Same reason soap operas are popular and why wrestling used to be huge (maybe wrestling still is huge, but I don't feel like I hear about it as much).
People like drama. That it's contrived doesn't matter, it's still drama.
Interdimensional cable is arguably better.
Mobile UI. It sucks. Yet the majority of people online are now connecting from it, and everything wants to be an app.
Apps can collect all your data from your phone whereas a website doesn't have access to your GPS location, etc necessarily.
The keyboard is epic though. Totally designed in 6th circle of hell
I will also never understand the fascination with streaming. Just play the game, nerd.
For the viewer: Playing take a lot of energy, watching is more passive. Especially like horror games that raise your blood pressure / heartrate. Also, not everyone can afford games, some are console only, and even PC games have hardware requirements that people don't have, because people either have a potato computer, or just have smartphone only. Also, games are hard, watching a streamer dying is kinda funny.
For the streamer: Socialization (even tho its kinda one-sided, they can still read comments / live chat), and most importantly, money.
I mean I couldn't handle horror games even if I was just watching! The hardware stuff is valid though. I used to watch videos of this family play APB wayyy long ago since it was on PC only I think (or paid). Watching others play in a livestream just feels like blue balling yourself though.
It's not just to watch the game, it's to watch/listen to the streamer. It's like a talk show.
I used to think this, but as I gave it a shot, I started learning new techniques in games like Overwatch. Learn from better players than me.
I also can just watch a stream of a new game and see if it's something I'd like to play. Saves me from buying a game I might not like.
I'm glad people stream because I can (a) watch games that I find interesting but hate the mechanics/etc. of and can't/won't play and (b) I can learn different techniques and other things in games I do like (such as Link to the Past Randomizer).
I do also like streaming for language practice, mostly just on the input/listening side.
It’s not just for the game, but the narration.
I only follow a handful of streamers, I really don't care what games they play. What's important to me is that they're entertaining, not too loud like 90% of U.S streamers.
I especially like streamers who play with their friends, I find solo streamers boring and compensate by being loud and shouting all the time.
Sometimes I just don’t have the time to play so I leave a streamer on in the background while I work and look at that screen every once in a while to catch s glimpse of a game that’s nostalgic and comfortable.
AI, the only people hyped about it are corporate heads, and people trying to get into the industry via grad school pipeline.
hyping content creator as the goal for younger people to become? these people arnt really good models to follow and you hear them get into some kind of drama and find out they are pos: sniperwolf, mr beast, siderman. also liek to mention most current creators are often rich/come from wealth themselves, so it doesnt help people who arnt as rich as they are.
and then people still defending PEWPEWDIE? why are people still trying to give his previous support of bigotry a pass, just because he had a child now.
Almost anything. As a neurodivergent I seem to be mostly immune and I see the hype circles people are running in and find them bad as all distracts from the immediate issues we are having and should turn our attention to (from personal to global).
The same in most institutions and companies afaik.
I struggle to understand hype for most things nowadays.
It's weird I just don't feel it now.
I went to see a band I should have went to see 20 years ago. I can't say I felt much hype beforehand. The hype only started when the intro played and the band started walking out.
Within the first couple of songs I was a mess with happy tears, but everything leading up to it? I was just chill, totally unphased.
I think I'm broken 👍
Poekmon: It came out when I was in highschool doing band, theater, occasional sports, a summer job (fulltime), and a parttime job otherwise so I just never got into it. To me, it's a glorified paper-rock-scissors simulator with extra steps and zero nostalgia.
VTubers: it's just uncanny valley to me. I'm also super sensitive to audio-video sync issues and avatars seemed to always be slightly behind the couple of times I tried to watch it.
Shorts (and entire social media like TickTock, reels (I think it is called?), etc.): the forcing of vertical video is one reason since I'm almost always watching things in landscape (95% of the time on a TV, monitor, or tablet). I also just want to see more of the same topic, typically, and it's over and now I have to pay a mental context-switching fee.
when i was in MS, a girl classmate said it was just picture on paper. the current hype/pandemic is due to scalping pokeinvestors trying to gouge prices over it. the pandemic just made everyone stayed home and play pokemon all day. funny thing is nobody said anything about MTG when i was playing HS, and yugioh was hot sht when i was HS, and it was too risky to play it, because people were stealing it from other people.
it got some resurgence due to people capable of plahying it online. people do criticize the prize mechanic is archaic and should be done away with, i much prefer a life point type mechanic instead.
In-N-Out. Tried it. It's OK.
Yea it's decent, but what really takes the cake is that it's far better than what you can get at McDonald's and (at least in my area) it's cheaper than McDs
Their double double combo is like 10$ compared to McDs pitiful BigMac combo at like 13
It's not worth flying across the country for like some do, but if I have a choice between McDs or In-N-Out....
Oh, for sure I'd rather it over McD's. I just don't think it's amazing like a lot of other people seem to think it is.
I remember when In-n-Out first came to Texas, and the line to try it had the entire highway backed up for miles; People couldn’t even fit in the parking lot, and the line had literally backed up all the way up the highway exit and onto the highway.
Tried it like a month later, and wasn’t impressed; If I just want a fast food burger, Whataburger is better.
Then you go to the east coast and they claim Five Guys is the better In-n-out and holy shit it is definitely not. Even more overpriced and not even as good as a burger king. Sheesh.
Having eaten all 3, Five Guys is the best. But hey, that's why everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Yours just happens to be wrong. 🙂
Very overpriced. Free peanuts tho
It's not better, it's just what's available. Like Sbarro when you're not in NYC and the local pizza sucks
In Colorado five guys is king as well. And I completely agree. More value for your money and the fries are much better.
It's a lot better than other fast food burgers. But it's a pretty basic, straight forward burger. It's fresh ingredients, done simply. And it's why everyone loves it.
I know of a few places near me where they serve nearly identical burgers, and I love those too.
Culver's is so much better!
I had one for the first time the other weekend. It was...ok? It tasted like a handful of other fast food burgers I've had.
Lots and lots of people working there, though.
It's worse than ok. I'd rather have any other common fast food. Fries are stale, shake melted, burger bad. The burger was the best part, but god damn it was a terrible meal. Not worth the meal. I would have rather eaten saltine crackers and peanut butter. We ended up throwing most of it out and going somewhere else.
Contrary to the negativity, while McDonald's for me is generally considered the bell-curve available absolute 5/10, their food engineering is incredible and worth admiring. They're the one chain that I confidently am in awe of from a scientific perspective, AND, still hold the crown for best Coke.
"The good old days"
The great thing about the past is that you can forget anything you want. Just hold on to the happy thoughts and any day can be a good ol day.
Good ol' days of countries threatening each other with nukes. Good times. /s
That's still happening today ya know?
Grad school. Unless your getting a professional degree with a license that protected by the state and the profession is well established and compensated, don't waste your money and time if you could see yourself doing anything else.
Hell... Undergrad might be sliding into this category as well.
Cars
Cars in general or the Pixar movie?
its because you didnt watch hot wheels world race and hot wheels acceleracers as a kid. damn the deora II is so cool
I get cars in general, but not beyond a means to an end.
Car shows, tuning, wrenching, effects, truck balls, classic and sports cars, all seem like such a waste of time and money.
If you enjoy driving at a brisk pace on a curvy mountain road while hearing vroom vroom noises from the engine, sports cars are great! If you don't, they're less practical and more expensive than average cars, which is a bad deal.
Facebook.
La Croix
All the oddball fads like fidget spinners and rubber bands shaped like things.
Low fat diets.
Nirvana. The band.
I missed the grunge movement in its peak but I got into Pearl Jam and Soundgarden. Just couldn’t get into Nirvana beyond a few songs that I do like. Musically, I feel like both Pearl Jam and Soundgarden dwarf Nirvana.
When an artist is the first to inspire a movement, history tends to look back on them differently. There's a related trope that covers this phenomenon - "Seinfeld is Unfunny." From that page:
There are certain works that you can safely assume most people have enjoyed. These shows were considered fantastic when they were released. Now, however, these have a Hype Backlash curse on them. Whenever we watch them, we'll cry, "That is so old" or "That is so overdone".
The sad irony? It wasn't old or overdone when they did it, because they were the first ones to do it. But the things it created were so brilliant and popular, they became woven into the fabric of that work's niche. They ended up being taken for granted, copied, and endlessly repeated. Although they often began by saying something new, they in turn became the new status quo.
Nirvana is one of the artists mentioned under the "Music" examples on that same page. The point is, they were groundbreaking when they came out, but they changed the music scene so much and have inspired so many similar artists that their original work has become overshadowed by the successors they helped create.
Your experience is common and it's okay not to enjoy their music, but the key to remember is that without Nirvana helping to pave the way, other grunge bands may not have risen to the popular level they reached.
Bleach and Incesticide weren't particularly good albums. Generic rock pulp, the songs were interchangeable.
EIDT: I'd argue it's their live shows that made them stand out. "Live and Loud" electrified me to no end.
Having read Kurt's journals, they wanted to be mid. They were capitalizing on the success of other bands and implementing their styles. They weren't trying to change the world, they just wanted to get paid to make decent music
Not putting any of this on their feet. Maybe they wanted to be mid but that's not how history seems to remember them.
Nirvana is still hyped as one of the greatest bands ever. Maybe it was revisionism after Kurt's death? But whatever it is, I feel like their music doesn't deserve the hype it gets today.
I love Nirvana. I think a good case can be made that Nirvana were the only grunge band and that the others like you mentioned were grunge only in that they shared a fashion. They aren't really the same genre of music, just look. IMHO.
Or that their music evolved with the times? I'll be the first to admit that I don't understand genres, but I feel like early Soundgarden albums sounded very close to Nirvana's sound, but later albums became more rock?
Nirvana was ok. They are the ones credited with killing the hair metal genre.
But honestly Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, and Stone Temple Pilots....they are all 10 times better than Nirvana ever was.
Romance. Like I get on an intellectual level why people couple up and all, evolution and all that, and that people strongly desire it, but Ive never been able to imagine exactly what it feels like to want that close of a relationship with someone, let alone a formalized and exclusive one.
I want essentially a roommate who is cute, but not really sex. I just don't really understand it beyond a means to an end.
Granted when I started estrogen I got the bombshell news that I am possibly intersex(?) with ~5x less than minimum normal levels of testosterone so that probably has something to do with it
it's been about a month on E and my sex drive has plummeted even further than it was before. It's interesting.
The Office
The TV Series or the real estate scam by the rich?
The tv series.
Elves. They're the vanilla ice cream of fantasy races. Oh wow an elf archer daring today arent we, let me guess smart? attractive? tall? skilled?
Goblins on the other hand they deserve more hype. They're awesome I love those little guys.
Hey don't bring vanilla into this, vanilla is actually an amazingly deep and complex spice and flavor. Common =/= complex or good
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minecraft
When it first started there wasn't much like it. It was like playing life sized Legos. And the resource requirements were so like you could just about okay it on a potato. And not even, like, a big russet or King Edward potato. I'm talking one of those little bite sized red ones
These days I just use it to diagnose my nephew with autism
Red Hot Chili Peppers is the most 5/10 band in history.
Gonna disagree with you there. BloodSugarSexMagic was nice when it dropped. Music video of them dancing in their underwear with P-funk was revolutionary at the time.
Their stuff in the 2000s though? Yea, too overproduced.
Flea slappin’ bass though…that dude is a legend.
I will not play pickleball.
Partying. The whole idea of dressing up to leave one’s home after dark to visit a dimly lit, overly crowded place with overpriced drinks and snacks and music so loud you can’t hear yourself think.
Seems entirely unnecessary. I feel like social connection is so much easier when you can see and hear each other. Being able to get enough sleep and not needing to pay through the nose for 5 peanuts is also nice.
By extension. Going out for drinks. Spending 5x for alcohol served to be briskly by someone overworked and tip them...
Maybe I'm just cheap but I'd rather just drink at a friends house or my own home.
This way I'm safer and can pass out if I need to.
I just don’t drink alcohol in the first place (and also don’t get the hype, lol), but I can see how it makes more sense at a friends house.
I feel like this is only one specific type or partying where you go to a business. There are many forms of DIY partying which involve spending less money and allow you to see and speak to people that you are parting with.
Yeah, that I understand more. At least for people who are more extroverted than I am, lol. But being in a setting in which you can see and hear people while not needing to pay insane prices sounds way more reasonable.
Alcohol. Or drugs for that matter. But alcohol is the one that actually pisses me off when depicted in media. It's always some character downing a glass of something and then having this super happy face and enjoying themselves. Like, fuck off? Anyone I know who drinks doesn't even enjoy the flavor of it, and it being romanticized into this fancy, social drink is genuinely infuriating.
As for drugs, I just don't understand the reason why someone would want to alter their mental capabilities.
As far as drugs go, I’ve tried basically everything but opiates (well I’ve smoked opium, but nothing else. I avoid those) and the way some drugs can change your visual, auditory, and even temporal perceptions is the most amazing and interesting experience in life. It’s truly incredible. I don’t do much anymore, but I’m so happy I have tried what I did. Beyond perception, certain drugs have made me feel pleasure beyond anything I could possibly imagine. Some people told me stuff like that could ruin other pleasures in life, but I have not at all had that happen. Perhaps heroin or fent could do that.
Trauma Trauma can easily make it where you can't stand your own thoughts or how you feel. So anything that augments that can be very attractive.
I'd day mental health too, even if you don't have known traumas. Major depression, etc. But I know women who can't relax or aren't very intimate unless they drink. But as someone with an alcoholic father, alcohol has some big dark sides. Even if you are happy when you drink, it can really mess your brain up.
Don't enjoy alcohol like that.
It can have a particular taste I might enjoy every while but I know the risls and try to keep it a low number. And I feel like I can be at risk for addictions. So I was never drunk and never plan to.
There has only been one alcoholic drink that I've enjoyed and it was because it tasted more like juice than alcohol. Also I was 17 at the time (accompanied by trusted adults) so that might've influenced it.
I get why people drink, and it's not like I'll care about any random person downing drinks left and right. What makes me mad is the overly-romanticized way it's depicted in media 99% of the time, and how normalized it is.
To each their own, but fuck any depiction in media that romanticizes them.
The MCU and most specifically, RDU’s IronMan.
Who would you cast as your perfect Iron Man?
I don’t have anyone in mind.
Krispy Kreme donuts. Cold Stone Creamery. Cake Pops.
The one thing Krispy Kreme has going for them is if you can get them fresh and warm, they are pretty damn good, and they generally make them fresh all day. But at least in my area, what they did is open a handful of locations where you could get them freshly-made, let those build some hype for a year or two, then close them down and sell the pre-packaged garbage in grocery stores and gas stations.
IMO they are still generally better than whatever other basic glazed donuts you can buy off the store shelf, but if there's a local bakery that sells fresh donuts though, 10/10 they will be better than Krispy Kreme.
99% of Krispy Kreme in the UK is sold from a small display in a supermarket, where they’re stone cold and greasy as shit.
The Harlem Shake, it didn’t help that I could never figure out what it was..
Pretty good with the fries, animal style.
I don't care who the government sends, I will not waste my time with radio talk shows rebranded as podcasts.
I am guilty of chucking Second Wind and Friends Per Second on the TV when there's nothing good on since they talk about good topics and bother with presentation for a viewing audience, though.
Podcasts exist for people that work alone all day and need something in their earholes to keep them from thinking about how much life sucks.
I personally prefer DnD actual play podcasts to keep me mollified
Potato salat. Just fucking weird when they have fireworks for that stuff. Don't get me wrong, it's fine, just not worthy of fireworks. A little dance maybe.
What are you talking about? Fireworks for potato salad??
I know, right?!
I ask this as someone currently eating some, when did they have fireworks for this stuff?
Last time, for example.
listened to multiple neil young albums 3 times over and i still dont get why hes worshipped. only albums i even liked were some of harvest and his buffalo springfield stuff
His best work was with Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young. Deja Vu is a banger of an album, but if you don’t dig it then you don’t dig it, no art is universal.
yeah ive heard deja vu as well. i remember somewhat liking it. id probably have to listen again
Dark Souls games.
Or Final Fantasy games.
Or GTA.
Mr. Beast.
turns out hes a POS like witht he people associated with.
Unsubbed from a person that featured him recently.
Can't support his behaviour and anyone that supports his presence in any capacity.
His annoying face is everywhere. Fucking Influencer products everywhere
Those soulless, empty eyes…