Tbf I think this is an american thing. I have never asked someone for their hight, nor ever seen anyone ask this. American women are obsessed with men hight.
if you’re over 6 feet or so, all sorts of people will ask what your height is… but i have seen weird height minimums on dating apps… usually with “i want to be able to wear heels”
Haha yeah perhaps if you live in a country where that's rare.
You have to be ~2 meters here to get comments, and even that isn't really rare. 210 would probably start turning heads a bit.
As someone who's well over 2 meters tall, I can tell you that no matter where I travel, people always ask. Just depending on the country, they just stop me walking in public, or only after some small talk.
I don't believe people do that! must be crazy because this is crazy for me
I've never made height a thing in dating. But! I'm the shortest living member of my family (and by a large margin) so I appreciate when I have a partner who can reach all the things I can't reach at the store or wherever.
Why do we even have shelves so high off the ground???
For storage. Like, putting things on them.
It is not a US thing I can assure you. You get bios from some women's in dating apps stating "what do you call a man under 6'0"? A friend."
As if that's going to stop me from swiping right!
You don't see how actually using feet as the measurement already signifies just how American it is?
Most people in my country don't even have an idea on how much 6ft is.
The average height here is ~180, which translates as 5"11'.
I have literally never in my life known a person who had 182cm as an arbitrary height limit for guys. Actually, I've not seen any type of height limits basically, aside from a few girls having the criteria of "I would prefer to date someone at least as tall as me."
Americans are a nation of short kings, lol.
It's not just the US, unreasonable focus on height is a thing in a number of countries, even non-western ones.
Though, where I live, it would be weird to ask this on a date.
As a tall person, who has been married to the same noticeably shorter woman for 36 years, height has never been questioned between us. I can't remember any woman I had ever dated, going back to high school, ever asking me my height. 'Twas pretty obvious I'm a whole lot taller than they were.
Although, now that I think about it, When I was a teenager I did originally want to marry a woman who was like 6' or taller. Just my luck, the woman I've been married to for 36 years is only 5' 3" tall.
I need to move
It is a weird American thing, but I'm not sure where it comes from. My husband and I are the same height, he might be an inch or so taller than me. I love him, and height isn't something I really care about.
However, I've had some "friends" who decided to voice their opinion on my partner and say stupid shit like "he'd be more handsome if he was taller" or "I could never be with a short guy."
I guess it's a good thing he's not married to you then isn't it? I'm not friends with those women anymore for obvious reasons. They were 30 something year old mean girls.
I don't have time for that shit.
I'm 5'3 and used to date a girl that was 5'10 she got comments like that from some of her friends all the time when we were together. They'd even say shit in front of me and then act like I was an asshole for not wanting to associate with them. I'm not insecure about my height at all but I'm also not going to be disrespected over something I can't control.
exactly! From all the things I think about when thinking of a partner Hight is not one of them at all. If a women cares about it its a red flag
I assume you were planning on riding her?
Make sure you do it safely, with a lap restraint.
don't forget the latex helmet
And overhead bars.
Keep your hands inside the ride at all times
This is the real punchline 🤣
5' 7"
How much do you weigh?
Slightly uncomfortable? Wondering what that has to do with anything? Then why did you ask for my height?
When his height starts with 5
When her weight starts with 200
Wtf why are you fat shaming me?
Why are you height shaming me? You could always lose some weight, but I can’t grow another six inches
I get more people saying to me “wow you’re very tall” to which I respond with “yes and you are very observant” which I feel is funny in the moment but is just condescending enough to make them realize it later on.
What sometimes bothers me is constantly getting asked to reach for something high because I'm tall. My Wife has always been good at that despite all the step stools we have around the house for her.
I reached a point where I now ask her to pick things up off the floor because she's shorter than me, (she's 5'3" I'm 6'4"). Making her closer to the ground.
Honestly, I am unoffended by that dynamic in my house. Our difference isn't as great - my 5'5" to his 6'2" - but I just laugh and tell him to move when he tries to scrunch down to get things, and I sigh loudly and stare at him while stretching my arm up if I don't want to climb for high things. We're goofy like that, though, neither of us take it seriously and he teases me right back.
Got any more tips? I just kind of laugh it off and say yeah...guess so. Or nope too clumsy for basketball lol.
How's the weather up there is most annoying and I never know what to respond for that. Think I just glare lol
Sunny with a zero percent chance of an original joke.
You could always fart and say "a lot better than it's about to be down there"
A funnier response for more social occasions that I bust out is “thanks, I practice everyday”. Usually gets a laugh
I respond "no im not. are you okay?"
Little dude is taking no shit.
Hobbit Smash!
whatever happened to the old standards; 'can you nail a 6 inch spike through a board with your penis?'
“How tall are you?”
“Do your eyes not function?”
* place my hand on my head *
"this tall"
I don't understand why you'd ask when the person is right there with you. You can see how tall they are. I'm the average height of men where I live, and for whatever reason the tall guys here 95% of the time seem to date short women (which looks really weird to me but I'm the product of a union just like that - mom 5'4" dad 6'4", so maybe it's nature trying not to breed us into giants). I have really mostly only dated guys within an inch or two of my height, in both directions. Husband is almost exactly my height. Which all makes sense since such a large chunk of the guys here are close to my height.
Anyway - I don't ask, but have been asked, quite accusingly sometimes, as though I am being tall to make a guy feel short and they are offended.
Idk if getting on the table is a good response to being asked your height…
I don't think anything in cyanideandhappiness can be described as reasonable. The fact that there's no butt stuff here makes it pretty tame already.
My friend doesn't get it, can someone help, please?
"you must be this tall to ride"
Oh. Thank you
an emotional roller coaster
Short King getting on the table to present as bigger to deter predators.
am I the only one who doesn't get the joke, or
Roller coasters famously have "you must be this tall to ride" signs where anyone shorter is not allowed supposedly for safety reasons
The only place you might get asked your height is at roller-coasters
Also some parts of historical sites. Some of the local ones have hallways that are only 5'6" max and maybe 1'6" wide if you're very lucky.
Are we setting up for a very tall next generation?
