Hmm.. chocolate is made of beans… mac is grains & cheese is dairy… well I’m convinced!
So… a cake?
Never heard of it until this moment.
All those beliefs you described are perfectly fine and reasonable. Finding someone else who feels the same as you about all that stuff is a long shot though. It’s a lot of boxes to tick. Plus they have to be in fairly close proximity to be IRL friends, so even lower odds. Then you have to meet by chance. Just on that math alone, you will almost certainly need to calm that inner monologue and accept people’s differences. Maybe you can meet some people you can be 50% friends with. Or just close enough on a few interests and activities. Know what I mean?
A very bad word that we’re not even supposed to say on the internet, believe it or not.
Funny story. I know an old Chinese man who has a stutter. When he starts a sentence he often repeats the the the the the before he gets going. It sounds like removed removed removed. So far no one has confronted him but I always worry it will happen some day.
Is there something like ultimate-guitar but for drums? Where do you get free sheet-music for a beginner drummer to explore and learn from?