And it was a great early episode where Keiko and Winn had their conflict regarding the school curriculum.
On Keiko's end, it showed that she had to look for a place on the station and that she was making sacrifices for Miles. It also showed her beliefs the lens in which Federation civilians would look at religion.
On Winn's end, you see her use of religion for political gain by turning a nothing issue into a conflict on the station. She is acting as a bad priest, using her role mainly for political gain.
Honestly, I think the biggest problem is that Colm Meaney and Rosalind Chao have negative chemistry. They probably cast her in TNG thinking that O'Brien was a second-tier supporting character, and that she had good "nervous bride" energy for her first appearance in "Data's Day," and that would probably be about it for the character. It's not the actor's fault that a fictional pairing that wasn't very well thought-out on the writers' and casting director's part didn't turn out to be strong enough to survive as a primary plot driver.
That said... I would have loved to see Miles and Keiko go through an amicable divorce. They virtually did, between Keiko basically throwing Miles and Kira together during their pregnancy and Keiko's long-term journeys to Bajor. It wouldn't have been that much further to just have them realize that they'd grown apart and agree to separate, and it could be a way for Star Trek to explore a subject that a lot of people had real-life experience with. I don't suppose that mid- to late-90s Star Trek producers would have gone for it, but there was some real narrative potential there.
Yes. And her (the actresses) role in Three Body Problem is like that characters development. If you want some Keiko head cannon, bc.. while some femme baddies were written really well (like Win, probably only Win) there's a hesitation, a lack of commitment to the thought project of darkness in a loving mother, doting wife.
When I was a teen I thought she was just awful, but rewatching when I have a spouse and kids I see she’s trying to make the best of a difficult situation and they are a realistically flawed couple.