These are not incompatible. If the first is your normal state of mind and the second allows you to process your feelings and forget that moment, then it’s all good.
Or that drive with their fucking full beam lights on. Or new SUVs with their headlights as bright as the sun lasering their way directly into your eyes.
Yesterday, this guy makes his own lane on the right apron and turned left in front of the long line of cars that had been patiently waiting for 10 minutes. Those are the aholes that irritate me. I see it a coupla times on my 30 miles commute in the Pugetopolis.
I still like the advice I read once: assume the other driver is desperate for a poo.
If they're driving too fast: they're so desperate to get to a toilet, that's why. If too slow: they're trying ever so hard not to go over a bump too hard and let it out.
Not sure how that applies to turn indicators though...