Yep
Yep
Yep
Fuck that I look way better.
I look older, sure. With less hair. A lot more single. But I'm down 90lbs and I've finally figured out style
That's awesome, congrats! This is the kind of inspiration I need.
and I've finally figured out style
Heeelllll yeah \m/
100%. Also cleaning the kitchen. Always cleaning the kitchen.
This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.
...which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.
Me when I look at my highschool id card. I thought I was hideous then. Now, on the other hand ..
I feel seen. DON'T LOOK AT MY THOUGH I'M HIDEOUS!
Not as hideous as you’ll be in a few years!
with estrogen… you just keep looking better
is there any sub where I can post my pictures to get a female eye on it? Lately I've been feeling very meh about myself
Honestly I just want some ideas for mixing up my style. I'm jealous of my wife and daughter for all of the fun dresses and jewelry and whatnot they can do but masculine outfits don't really allow for many options
There is if you know where to look, but yeah, I feel you. I want to wear long flowy coats and such, but they're all cut at the goddamn hip.
I hated my hair but I sure do miss it.
Well, always felt that.
I've had that feeling over photos taken 2 days prior.
I can't tell if it's just some mild version of body-dysmorphia
I'd change that as : "Being an adult is mostly realizing you didn't look as bad as you thought you did because the only person that was concerned about that was you. Everyone else was doing their own thing focusing on themselves, just like they are now."
I've always loved the word "sonder". Knowing that people have their own lives and thoughts and usually they aren't centered on you at all is liberating. I wish I had run across this as a kid, to realize that the peer pressure I thought was there giving me anxiety was totally self-inflicted and I could just be myself.
That's the case for you. My friends started talking amongst themselves about how jobless I am
That's a cool concept, but a made up word.
Language evolves, sure. But making up words is like genetically engineering a third leg or something.
I like this version.