Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world ickplant @lemmy.world 3w ago

Yep

Memes @europe.pub tfm @europe.pub 3w ago

Yep

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I'd change that as : "Being an adult is mostly realizing you didn't look as bad as you thought you did because the only person that was concerned about that was you. Everyone else was doing their own thing focusing on themselves, just like they are now."
- I've always loved the word "sonder". Knowing that people have their own lives and thoughts and usually they aren't centered on you at all is liberating. I wish I had run across this as a kid, to realize that the peer pressure I thought was there giving me anxiety was totally self-inflicted and I could just be myself.
  
  That's the case for you. My friends started talking amongst themselves about how jobless I am
  
  That's a cool concept, but a made up word.
  
  Language evolves, sure. But making up words is like genetically engineering a third leg or something.
- I like this version.
Fuck that I look way better.

I look older, sure. With less hair. A lot more single. But I'm down 90lbs and I've finally figured out style
- That's awesome, congrats! This is the kind of inspiration I need.
- and I've finally figured out style
  
  Heeelllll yeah \m/
Nah, with age I become wiser and my look is more or less stable for the last 20 years. Just more white hair but that doesn't look bad.

You're maturing wrong :)
- good bot
  
  good engine
- I feel like this is less true for women.
  
  Yes, men definitely grow old better when it comes to looks. Women live longer than men though.
100%. Also cleaning the kitchen. Always cleaning the kitchen.
- And laundry. Always folding the laundry.
  
  The key to a successful relationship is to have one partner that is sort of ok with doing the laundry and one partner that is sort of ok with doing the dishes.
- This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.
  
  ...which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.
People, you are beautiful ❤️
Me when I look at my highschool id card. I thought I was hideous then. Now, on the other hand ..
I feel seen. DON'T LOOK AT MY THOUGH I'M HIDEOUS!
- Not as hideous as you’ll be in a few years!
with estrogen… you just keep looking better
is there any sub where I can post my pictures to get a female eye on it? Lately I've been feeling very meh about myself
- Honestly I just want some ideas for mixing up my style. I'm jealous of my wife and daughter for all of the fun dresses and jewelry and whatnot they can do but masculine outfits don't really allow for many options
  
  There is if you know where to look, but yeah, I feel you. I want to wear long flowy coats and such, but they're all cut at the goddamn hip.
I hated my hair but I sure do miss it.
Well, always felt that.

I've had that feeling over photos taken 2 days prior.

I can't tell if it's just some mild version of body-dysmorphia

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