Is it normal to be disgruntled?

Totally sane. Most layoffs are an effort to boost stock prices because some executives made a dumb fucking decision.

Being laid off is absolutely not a comment on your worth as an employee or a human being. You should give companies as much of your blood sweat and tears as they'd give you - none. With some extremely rare exceptions being an employee is just a transaction.

Mate I'd be worried if you were anything but disgruntled. Companies are shit, layoffs are shit, feeling like shit after being through shit is pretty normal.

are utterly void of any camaderie

Contrary to what all these companies claim in their internal propaganda, they are not your friends, they are not your family, and you are not even a person to them - you are just a human resource. Your work shouldn't be your life or your way to "fulfill yourself" or "grow" (whatever the fuck that means). It is a way to obtain money so you can live your actual life. Never feel like you owe anything to a company.

Yes it's normal. I got laid off some time ago, and even though I was able to find a better job fairly quickly, I feel like I lost my mojo.

I always knew that a job was a relationship of convenience, but I figured being good at my job, relatively cheap, and well liked, would protect me from this sort of action.

It's demoralising to realise just how shallow the relationship is.

Anyway good luck on your job search.

It is normal but you may want to keep it in check. It can easily spiral down into depression and you won't notice.

Source: personal experience, 1yr+ unemployed, now seeing a therapist

Bitter Bri'ish guy who's just asking if being infuriated with this isn't like a mental disease

Stiff upper lip. (Couldn't resist lol)

No, it's perfectly normal to feel disgruntled or defeated after a setback like that. That said, do try not to dwell on those feelings and find time to do something that brings you joy.

Dunno if job searching is as bad in the UK as it is in the US (thankfully haven't had to go through that recently), but from what I've heard it can be a nightmare with all the AI nonsense and filtering you have to jump through to even talk to a person.

It'll definitely pass, and it's okay to feel that way, just don't let it consume you.

There is no camaderie in capitalism.

Yeah it's normal. It will pass, this is temporary. Good luck in your search, the right thing is coming for you

I was never gruntled in the first place.

Yes, I would say that is a fairly typical reaction.

Try to get some fresh air, or go out with friends, or whatever, clear your head a little bit from time to time. There's only so much that can be done at once, and it's good to try and get a break from dwelling on it too much. Changing your immediate scenery for a short span can aid in this.

I've worked somewhere that they laid of some of the best employees in the department, simply because they were higher seniority and "made too much money" and had to cut costs. There were plenty of better candidates to let go, if the focus had been productivity, but it wasn't. They just wanted a short-term solution to balance the books.

So a month and so later, I’m still searching and I just feel bitter and jaded, I’m not getting calls back.

The past few months I have put in some applications for jobs I am qualified or slightly over-qualified for, and same thing - 0 calls back. Best I've had is a rare rejection email.

Yes.

Disgruntled yes. Gruntled, not so much.

There's little in the world to be anything but disgruntled about.

Absolutely. I worked my way out of my existential lay-off crisis by volunteering. It got my mind re-focused on cool stuff, which in turn lead to a much better job.

This is what I was taught.

You've got 24 hours in a day. The time you spend being angry is time you're not doing something constructive.

If being upset actually helps motivate you, then revel in it.

If it hinders you, realize that being productive is the best way to screw the ones who fired you.

Yeah, that’s totally normal.

No matter how much you think of a job as just a commercial transaction between you and your employer it’s hard not to have a visceral, emotional reaction to being told ‘we don’t need you’.

I don’t know your financial situation, obviously, but my advice would be to try and take a bit of time out to clear your head of the old job and the layoff before you really get stuck in to finding your next gig. If you can afford to step back for a bit and clear the understandable negativity you’re currently experiencing then you’ll be far better set up for job hunting than if you just try and push through while you’re still in that negative mental space.

It really depends. I did not at all when funding ran out from a university position. The lab tried its hardest to get funding and keep the positions. Part of that though is they had rules and regs such that I got termination contracts for some years before the end. They don't mean termination per se but they basically mean they do not not have funding to do it again next year. My lab eeked out a few more years by managing to get some small grants and projects and such before the end. Also though the university pays poorly so I basically started making better money once I had a job again. Had another one where the guy who owned the place made poor decisions and needed a scape goat to bs to his clients about. ie he could not say he was cheap and directed me to reformat and install laptops under assumptions the former employees backed up properly. Pretty bitter on that one. One was for covid and like the company was literally doing the keep the lights on thing so totally understandable and of course there was gov action to soften things. Most of my other jobs were straight up contracting so it was expected. So I only have one bitter situation and even then its more like. F that guy and I hope he gets whats coming to him.