I actually have a mini workshop for making little shit. I made matching desks for my son and me 7 years ago. Even though my son beat the crap out of his and mine lost a load support, they are still standing better than any IKEA desk I have seen.
I had an IKEA desk for three years before some movers damaged it in a cross country move. When they dropped it off the left hand side had snapped and they were like "that was like that when we picked it up."
So, I went out and got a new IKEA desk with the money from that and I've had that desk for eight or nine years now. It's been moved between houses four times and has not had an issue.
A little rough around the details (pine is not a hardwood, and MDF and chipboard are just as heavy as wood), but yeah, generally this is spot on.
I will say that just at a design level, a single-pillar end table is never going to handle the sledgehammer test very well compared to a four-legged design, but once you're through the initial clickbait moment, that old Ethan Allen piece is very much better made.
Good and relatively mass produced? Good start searching for terms like "solid wood dresser". You still have to do some vetting but it cuts down on the absolute junk.
Good and cheap? Check your local Goodwill and Habitat for Humanity ReStore regularly - their stock is highly variable, but they will have some of the best items for the best price out there.
Money is no object? Make friends with the folks at your local hardwood store and pry them for recommendations for local woodworkers, and attend local craft fairs.
It's odd because from what I can gather from things like youtube it seems like woodworking is huge there (and they say wood is cheap there too), so I'd imagine there should be a considerable amount of people doing furniture.
Contrasting to the situation here where people doing hand-maded furniture is lowering their prices so much trying to keep up with the ikea-type of shit (and of course doing things with superior quality).
Yeah. Only thing is, the "affordable" American made stuff largely consists of crap quality. I made the mistake of insisting on American made stuff when I also didn't have the budget for premium furniture. I ended up with crappy seating that started breaking in less than a year. The stitching started coming apart in the second year. And by the third year the "genuine" leather was separating and flaking.