I'm all belly, with no hips or ass to speak of, so I'm more comfortable wearing a top that covers the pelvic area. For active wear, I'll style with a sports bra, loose tank top, and sneakers. For comfort wear, I'll add a tshirt with colorful matching flats. If the tee is long enough, I'll twist/knot the bottom of it to the side.
Just for clarity, when I talk about my shape and how it affects my wardrobe choices, I am NOT saying that others with the same shape should make the same choices. Everyone should dress in whatever way gives them confidence and joy.
I've suspected I have it for a while. My mom recently got diagnosed and made me an appt with the same lady, whom she really likes. So I'm happy to go and see if she can do anything to help me improve my quality of life.
I recommend looking on poshmark. If ordering anything online, make sure you go by body measurements, because clothing sizes are varied and meaningless.
Every July, I throw a party for my family themed on a different Marvel character. We've done Captain America, Black Widow, Spiderman, Ms. Marvel, and Deadpool. This year we're doing Moon Knight. I've decided to make an escape room for it and it's one of the few things exciting enough to break through my anhedonia.
I didn't know lemmy did cake day.