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Tea versus Coffee
  • Coffee in the morning, Sleepy Time tea before bed

  • It's dessert time, what's your perfect post-dinner treat?
  • Blue Diamond makes these blueberry-flavored almonds that are amazing.

  • Do you like America? Why or why not?
  • I totally agree. There's a huge effort by the wealthy to keep the average person down, otherwise the rich don't make the money. It's super fucked up.

  • Do you think people who consume drugs are cool or they have mental problems?
  • For me, it totally depends on frequency of their use. Everything in moderation is fine to me (but let's face it, have you ever known anyone to casually smoke crack once in a while? Some drugs are more dangerous than other).

  • Are you still living with your parents/family?
  • I live in a high cost of living area and I was just telling my coworker, who lives in another state, that I know several people my age (mid-40s) who either still live with their parents or who live with several roommates of the same age, and I don't blame them a bit because it's fucking insane out there, dude, and only getting worse.

  • The last time you were scared, why?
  • Jesus, that's something out of a horror movie.

  • Do you like America? Why or why not?
  • Yes, I don't think many people realize how good we have it here. I say this having traveled to places and seen some shit (war in Iraq, gang violence in El Salvador, abject poverty in Palestinian refugee camps in Jordan).

    Can the U.S. be better? Of course it can. There are horrible things happening here and people are losing their rights at a scary rate. However, these horrible things are not on the same level of horror as that which is occurring/has been occurring in other countries, it's apples to oranges.

    Anytime I've been overseas and I come back to America I realize how much I love it here. We have it so good here, really. But as someone else stated, there is huge inequality that needs to be addressed in order for EVERYONE here to have it so good.

  • What YouTubers did you used to watch back then but not anymore?
  • I'm still subscribed to him, but I have definitely not been watching him as often as I used to, and I couldn't exactly say why. I will say that The Library of Letourneau scratches the itch when I have it because it's just edited content of the best parts of NL.

  • What YouTubers did you used to watch back then but not anymore?
  • Used to religiously watch a guy that played the same video game I was into. He was incredibly good at it, well-known in the game's community, did how-to guides, build guides, super nice, just wanted everyone to have a good time, wanted everyone to excel in the game, good-natured, just an all-around awesome dude, etc.

    Then I dunno wtf happened, but 9 years later he's become a total fucking elitist asshole who does nothing but complain about the game and the gaming studio, doesn't seem to give a shit about the little guy just trying to learn the game anymore, it's like he did a 180 in personality and now has a "git gud" mentality. He made a video of him declaring that he was leaving the game, and he did, for like a month, then promptly returned once his viewership clearly went down. I unsubscribed at that point. He became a total whinebox bitch and I lost all respect for him.

  • At what hour you go to sleep?
  • I aim for 10pm, but it always ends up being like 10:45/11

  • 'Jack him up on Mountain Dew!' GOP lawmaker floats wildest Biden debate conspiracy yet
  • I'M JACKED UP ON MOUNTAIN DEW I'LL COME AT YOU LIKE A SPIDER MONKEY OLD MAN

  • Thickeners for cream pies
  • Xanthan gum might work, but I have admittedly never used it in yogurt.

  • what invisible thing could set off my smoke detector?
  • I've set one off while dying my hair.

  • which one do you prefer? having kids or no kids? and why??
  • I'm in my mid 40s now but I knew even when I was a kid that I never wanted kids. I see my friends and family now struggling with their own children and I just cannot imagine that life for me. I have no regrets not having kids, but if I ever did, I know it's better to regret NOT having them than to regret having them.

  • What specific variety of some fruit do you prefer? (A particular apple, a certain mango, etc.)
  • I'm on Team Honeycrisp 100%, even though they always cost more.

  • The meaning of life
  • Be excellent to each other

  • ‘Will I ever retire?’: millennials wonder what’s on the other side of middle age
  • I call it realistic. If you think everything is going to work out, you're delusional, man. But I hope you prove me wrong some day, I really do.

  • What's been the craziest moment of your life?

    Doesn't need to be a life or death situation, just any moment in your life where you found yourself saying "Holy shit, I can't believe this is happening!"

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    Name a Superhero you just can't stand

    For some reason I've just never liked Spider-Man. He comes off as a whiney, ignorant child that never seems to grow up or mature despite everything he goes through. I love a good coming of age story, but he just never seems to become an adult.

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    What's a recipe that you will NEVER make again?

    Have you ever tried a recipe that turned out to go horribly wrong, or maybe the end product, despite being good, just wasn't worth the effort? What was that recipe, and what about it made you say "NEVER AGAIN"?

    I ask this as I am actively trying to remove the stench of onions from my Instapot lid's silicone ring after making French Onion Soup in it (so far steaming it with white vinegar on the steam setting, soaking the ring in a water/baking soda bath overnight, and baking it at 250 degrees F for 20 minutes have all done nothing, so I ordered a new one, I give up). And I realized that cutting all the onions and waiting hours for them to caramelize and now this damn smell issue just isn't worth it. Plus I still have frozen soup in the freezer because I can only eat French Onion soup so many days in a row.

    NEVER AGAIN.

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    If money was not an issue, would you move to an entirely different state or country?

    If yes, where would you move to?

    If no, why not?

    I ask this as someone who has moved around a lot (5 states) for better working opportunities. I often hear people say they wish they could leave their current city/state/country, but money is often (understandably) an issue.

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    Add a little spice to your coffee
    theeleganteconomist.com Hawaij (Sweet Yemeni Spice Blend) | The Elegant Economist

    This version of the Yemeni spice blend is made for tea, coffee, and other sweets.

    Hawaij (Sweet Yemeni Spice Blend) | The Elegant Economist

    I use this blend of spices more during the winter months, but it's tasty in any season:

    HAWAIJ (SWEET YEMENI SPICE BLEND)

    Ingredients

    2 Tbsp dried ginger (or 2 large dried pieces of ginger)

    2 Tbsp cardamom seeds (removed from pods) (or 2 Tbsp ground cardamom)

    ¼ tsp ground nutmeg

    ¼ tsp ground mace (or 2-3 pieces mace)

    12 whole cloves (or ½ tsp ground cloves)

    1 whole cinnamon stick (or 1 Tbsp ground cinnamon)

    Instructions Grind all spices together in a spice grinder. Store in a cool, dark place for up to 12 months.

    (See linked website for more recipes and info)

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    What makes a great sci-fi story?

    I'm curious what users feel makes a great sci-fi story. What elements do you feel "make or break" the story specifically where sci-fi is concerned? For me, I really enjoyed the Expanse series, as it feels like there's a sort of "believability" to it all. The authors make everything seem very realistic, even if some of the descriptions and physics are made up.

    What is it about your favorite sci-fi books and shows that make them your favorites?

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    Detangler brush recommendation
    www.target.com Swissco Detangler Hair Brush - Black

    Read reviews and buy Swissco Detangler Hair Brush - Black at Target. Choose from contactless Same Day Delivery, Drive Up and more.

    Hello fellow curly-haired people!

    I just wanted to recommend the linked detangler brush. I use this one in the shower on wet hair and it has been a game-changer-- way less pulling and breakage and hair loss in general. I was using a wide-tooth comb before I came across this brush, but it's soooo much nicer and I don't spend 30 minutes picking through my hair now. If you haven't tried one of these brushes, it's totally worth the $5!

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    Nestle Alternatives

    Hello, and a big FUCK YOU to Nestle!

    I wanted to start a thread where we could share any Nestle-alternative products we have come across! I will get the ball rolling with what I have found over the years:

    KitKat- KitKats used to be my very favorite candy, so I was bummed when I learned they are made by Nestle. This is now my go-to alternative: https://norwegianfoodstore.com/products/kvikk-lunsj-chocolate-3-x-47-gram

    Kiehl's skincare products- I used to use Kiehl's Ultra Facial Cream, but now use e.l.f Holy Hydration face cream, which has the same ingredients and costs much less per ounce https://www.elfcosmetics.com/elf-skin

    Starbucks ground/whole bean coffee- Some of the bags you buy in the supermarket are made by Nestle (you have to check the back and sides of the bag to be sure). I stopped buying Starbucks and started buying bags of whole bean from a local coffee shop that roasts their own

    Garnier hair care products- I dye my hair frequently and used to use Garnier product, whose parent company is L'Oreal, which is owned by Nestle. I now use Clairol instead

    For a large list of Nestle-owned products, see Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Nestl%C3%A9_brands

    What are some Nestle-alternative brands that others here have found and enjoy?

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