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Finally some flower buds on the pepper plants
  • Yes, the poles hold up a piece of shade fabric that I throw over it if it gets too hot, or a rain storm is coming through (they still get wet, but not as much).

  • Anyone else that likes to put their phone in airplane mode to decompress/sleep?
  • I always put mine on DND and filter it for phone calls only from specific people (because if those people call me in the middle of night, it is for sure an emergency). Everything else is on silent.

    I'm not sure what you mean by "Having it on DND still makes you receive the notifications". You can filter all that shit out, check your settings. If you mean that you want to be able to look at your phone but not see notifications, I'd say you just need to learn to put the phone down, period. Don't even be looking at that thing 30 minutes before bed. Put it down and get ready for bed, then sleep.

  • Finally some flower buds on the pepper plants
  • I've got the high-nitrogen plant food ready and waiting! It would be awesome to be drowning in them, I eat bell peppers every day pretty much, and I'm dying to make some Hatch green chili, so I hope they all get crazy in the end.

  • Finally some flower buds on the pepper plants
  • PepperGeek.com has been my bible for all of this, definitely check them out!

  • Finally some flower buds on the pepper plants
  • That's very impressive! It's cool they're flowering indoors!

  • Finally some flower buds on the pepper plants

    I feel like this is taking forever. Not sure if I'll get any peppers in the end, but we'll see!

    ! !

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    Is it wrong to call myself bi?
  • Call yourself whatever you're comfortable with. I'm a woman and I call myself bi, but I've been with a man for 5 years, yet I still sometimes see/interact with women and I find them so attractive that I blush and get nervous around them. Yes, I am with a man, and I find men attractive, but I find women equally attractive. Just because I am with a man now, doesn't make those feelings for women go away, ever. Should I NOT call myself bi because I'm with a man? No, the attraction to women is always there, regardless.

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • I might be late to the party here, but I just wanted to chime in that my former husband and I went through this. He (now she) came out as MtF. I am not straight (bi), but I married them in part because I was attracted to their masculinity, which was now going away. I no longer found myself physically attracted to them. We went to marriage counseling, but ultimately decided to divorce. It was very hard, but it was ultimately for the best, for both of us. We remain friends and talk almost every day and it's been 7 years since the divorce.

    If you truly love someone, you set them free.

  • Have a good trip
  • As a woman, I've always been kinda jealous of a man's ability to just piss wherever, whenever. I mean, they do make these, but I've never used one because it kinda seems like you piss in there and it it'll just end up all over your entire yoni, which just sounds like a mess.

  • What is the "dip"?
  • My parents let me watch this when it came out. I was 8. RIP cartoon shoe.

  • Do you use autocorect on your devices? Why or why not?
  • I use it on my phone for text messages, but I've realized that over the years, I'm starting to forget how to spell some words. I should probably stop using it to reprogram my brain.

  • What old technology are you surprised is still in use today?
  • At my old government job, we had a fax machine because it "couldn't be hacked", so we would only accept certain documents via fax. Is this true? I have no idea. It was even more questionable when we switched the fax line to digital and received all the faxes via a software program on computers. Is THAT "un-hackable" too? No clue.

  • As women have far fewer babies, the U.S. and the world face unprecedented challenges
  • As a woman, you couldn't PAY ME to have a baby, you NEVER could. You know that shit in A Handmaid's Tale where they send the women who are too old to have kids out to work the fields until they die? Sign me up, because I'd rather be dead than bring a child into this world that has gotten only more and more fucked up as I've been alive. I always say, I love *my *children so much that I refuse to give them life on Earth.

  • What are your favorites? How do you like them?
  • I like all of these except capers. I eat olives and pickles regularly.

  • How many of you microwave water for tea?
  • We have a spigot in the kitchen that only puts out boiling-hot water, so I use that. If that's not working, I'd just boil it in a pan on the stove.

  • How to find custom Lego builds with instructions?
  • Other random LEGO question: Is there any website that I can upload a picture of something to it, and it will create LEGO instructions/create a piece list for me? I'd really love to have/build a LEGO version of The Ark starship from The Transformers, but I don't think it exists.

  • Important question
  • I love all of these, not gonna lie.

  • Does the "White Power Ranger" seem like an odd title?
  • Wasn't the white power ranger the green power ranger first, or am I misremembering the story (it's been a while, sorry)?

  • What book(s) are you reading right now and recommend for others?
  • Just finished the A Land Fit For Heroes trilogy by Richard K. Morgan and it was badass.

  • Seems like the perfect day to ask: Muricans, what's your dream country to expatriate to? Non-Muricans, what's the thought on accepting US refugees?
  • Canada, Iceland, New Zealand, or Germany, in no particular order. Then again, of those 4, I've only been to Canada.

  • What is the best, and conversely, the worst wedding you've ever been to, and why?

    Best: My aunt's wedding. Super quick ceremony. I and my cousins were all in the 6-11 year old age range. She had a piñata for us at the reception. We devoured candy and danced and ran around like maniacs, it was glorious.

    Worst: Years later, one of those same cousins mentioned above gets married. In July. In Massachusetts. Outside. The heat and humidity were unbearable. And they KNEW the weather was gonna be shit, because the wedding program they handed out to everyone before the ceremony began was shaped like a fucking fan. THEY KNEW.

    The ceremony finally ends and the catering staff makes everyone wait outside the dining hall in the heat for unknown reasons for another full hour. When we're finally let in, the AC is struggling to keep up and it's hot as hell in there, too. When the dinner is served, it is NOT the vegetarian lasagna I chose on the wedding invite, no, it's a portabella mushroom burger. I hate mushrooms, I would have never chosen such a thing. They switched the menu out and didn't tell anyone. Also, no open bar, wtf.

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    65 days of growth for pepper plants - Slow growing?

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    My "Big Jim" hatch chile plant isn't looking very big yet. The Guizeppi Milds and California Wonders are doing a bit better. This was the first day I took them all outside for a few hours to start the hardening off process. I've had them inside with a fan and grow lights up until now.

    I expected some flowering at this point, but it's been stupidly cold and rainy here since I planted back in late March (I'm in 6a/6b), so maybe I'm expecting too much too soon? Next week is the first week it will in theory be above 55 degrees F overnight.

    I've also been battling gnats (sticky traps and mosquito dunks for the win), which is weird to me because with the fan, the top layer of soil dries out pretty quickly, but I think I have them managed now.

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    Yeasted Sweet Breads

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    Tried my hand at yeasted sweet bread from the King Arthur Baking School cookbook – one plain, the other is lemon poppyseed.

    They came out okay, but I think I screwed myself over by using flour that was too cold because I pulled it straight from the freezer instead of taking it out the night before. The dough got a rise, but not big enough for my liking. Not sure if I also maybe kneaded it too much, as it was really hard to get the long strips for the braids to stay long, they just kept springing back into shorter strips.

    Probably won’t make this again, but I think the bread will make for some really good French toast.

    (Posted this over on a Baking community as well)

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    Yeasted Sweet Breads

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    Tried my hand at yeasted sweet bread from the King Arthur Baking School cookbook -- one plain, the other is lemon poppyseed.

    They came out okay, but I think I screwed myself over by using flour that was too cold because I pulled it straight from the freezer instead of taking it out the night before. The dough got a rise, but not big enough for my liking. Not sure if I also maybe kneaded it too much, as it was really hard to get the long strips for the braids to stay long, they just kept springing back into shorter strips.

    Probably won't make this again, but I think the bread will make for some really good French toast.

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    Pepper Seedlings coming along slowly

    They're a bit more leggy than I think is healthy, but hopefully repotting them will help.

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    www.militarytimes.com Trump plans to change Veterans Day into ‘Victory Day for World War I’

    Veterans Day has been a federal holiday since 1938, honoring the contributions of American military personnel.

    Trump plans to change Veterans Day into ‘Victory Day for World War I’

    Screw the rest of us, I guess?

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    Name a group, band, artist, or track you're really into right now

    I'm about to take a long flight and am looking to expand my music library.

    EDIT: Thanks so much, everyone! I've got 10.5 hours of music on my new playlist thanks to you all!

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    What's something that's free that everyone should know about?

    I'll start by plugging Harvard's free courses catalog as well as Udemy

    Edit: Gonna add 2 more I remembered-

    Blender - I wish I had more time to learn it, but I did start the infamous "Donut Tutorial" once!

    Watch Cartoons Online - Lots of good older stuff!

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    Lopsided Loaves turned out okay

    Made 2 basic white bread loaves for the first time and they came out pretty decent, despite being a tad lopsided. !

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    Tableau or Power BI (or both)?

    I'm about to be unemployed, and I'm looking to get some certificates for either Tableau or Power BI to make myself more marketable to prospective employers. I use Tableau in my current workplace and consider myself a "Beginner". I'm not great at it, but not horrible either (I can more make things look pretty than write extensive calculated fields).

    I've never used Power BI, but based on a bit of research, it seems like it's more commonly used in companies that are not already focused on data analytics. I've watched a few videos on Power BI, but never used the app myself. It definitely looks more user-friendly than Tableau, though.

    Can anyone offer any insight as to which app would be more marketable to have a certificate in when looking for entry-level jobs? Thanks you!

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    Hatch Green Chile Peppers

    First time trying to grow anything from seed by myself. Fingers crossed it works out!

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    Will COVID death rates of Republicans have a significant impact on the outcome of the presidential election?

    A study was conducted that revealed that once a COVID vaccine was available, Republicans were more likely to die than Democrats:

    Republicans' excess death rate spiked after COVID-19 vaccines arrived, a study says

    Excess Death Rates for Republicans and Democrats During the COVID-19 Pandemic

    "This study constructs an individual-level dataset with political affiliation and excess death rates during the COVID-19 pandemic via a linkage of 2017 voter registration in Ohio and Florida to mortality data from 2018 to 2021. We estimate substantially higher excess death rates for registered Republicans when compared to registered Democrats, with almost all of the difference concentrated in the period after vaccines were widely available in our study states. Overall, the excess death rate for Republicans was 5.4 percentage points (pp), or 76%, higher than the excess death rate for Democrats."

    Do you think this will have a significant impact on the election results in states like Ohio and Florida?

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    Looking for "R-rated", gritty, gorey high fantasy books

    I wanna read something that's fucking brutal with fighting and sex and all the things, but also WELL WRITTEN (so NOT George R.R. Martin, I can't stand his shit). I want Lord of the Rings on crack and steroids.

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    If Trump loses the election and flees to another country to avoid his sentencing in his (multiple) lawsuits, does the Secret Service have to go with him?

    Former U.S. presidents are authorized a security detail from the Secret Service for life. If Trump loses the election and flees the country, does his security detail have to go with him if he requests it?

    I imagine this could go down in a variety of ways: He departs the U.S. before he's sentenced and just never returns, or he attempts to flees or does flees the U.S. after his sentencing. Either way, what happens to his security detail?

    If he attempts to flees after he's sentenced, I would hope the detail would refuse to take part in it (if he can even board a plane/leave the country to begin with), but given all their failings, who knows.

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    What's been the craziest moment of your life?

    Doesn't need to be a life or death situation, just any moment in your life where you found yourself saying "Holy shit, I can't believe this is happening!"

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    Name a Superhero you just can't stand

    For some reason I've just never liked Spider-Man. He comes off as a whiney, ignorant child that never seems to grow up or mature despite everything he goes through. I love a good coming of age story, but he just never seems to become an adult.

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    What's a recipe that you will NEVER make again?

    Have you ever tried a recipe that turned out to go horribly wrong, or maybe the end product, despite being good, just wasn't worth the effort? What was that recipe, and what about it made you say "NEVER AGAIN"?

    I ask this as I am actively trying to remove the stench of onions from my Instapot lid's silicone ring after making French Onion Soup in it (so far steaming it with white vinegar on the steam setting, soaking the ring in a water/baking soda bath overnight, and baking it at 250 degrees F for 20 minutes have all done nothing, so I ordered a new one, I give up). And I realized that cutting all the onions and waiting hours for them to caramelize and now this damn smell issue just isn't worth it. Plus I still have frozen soup in the freezer because I can only eat French Onion soup so many days in a row.

    NEVER AGAIN.

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