The better ones don't focus on hating yourself, but them telling you to receive love from God is still a substitute for self love. They don't need to beat most people's self worth into submission, as most people naturally struggle with self love. It's hard to accept yourself, but easier to accept others (at least on average). By loving an entity you can't actually meet, you can indirectly receive your own love by imagining it loves you. You don't need to love your flawed self because God will love your flawed self. Just love the one who forgives and you never need to forgive yourself.
because you need to replace the love you can have for yourself with love for God. You're a miserable wretch who should feel terrible about your own existence, but by loving God, even someone as worthless as you can be loved. Turning your back on the Lord is impossible when when you rely on him for your own self worth; when without feeling his love you are rendered depressed and hopeless. Besides, it's easier to love a perfect being than to love yourself, so this addiction is the easier option to doing that hard work.
The better ones don't focus on hating yourself, but them telling you to receive love from God is still a substitute for self love. They don't need to beat most people's self worth into submission, as most people naturally struggle with self love. It's hard to accept yourself, but easier to accept others (at least on average). By loving an entity you can't actually meet, you can indirectly receive your own love by imagining it loves you. You don't need to love your flawed self because God will love your flawed self. Just love the one who forgives and you never need to forgive yourself.