Our princess ruled

is there a fediverse version of /r/abrathatfits ?

There are not enough women in the fediverse to maintain femme-centric communities.

Most of the ones I used to be subscribed to shut down due to being abandoned/unmodded. And they turned out that way because of harassment.

It's a huge issue that no one will address. Mostly because they will be harassed.

It sucks.
- Wow, I had no idea it was like that here, that's terrible :(
- I'm a dude. Can I help?
- There are not enough women in the fediverse to maintain femme-centric communities.
  
  Or maybe they rather mask a man / gender neutral. Internet is not a friendly place to have girl oriented conversations. I made the mistake to be open about my gender with this account and the odacity of people is astonishing.
- If I may:
  
  pick a small instance (mine fits the bill) or host your own (a bit of sysadmin skills required)
  
  start a local-only community
  
  spread the word
  
  While growing up, it can always be opened up for test runs to see if moderation efforts are justified to keep it open permanently.
  
  Main downside: all users members have to be on the same lemmy instance, at least in the beginning.
  
  There's also a potential problem of my instance not fitting because of I myself am a man.

I get the point, at the same time that ain't just any man,, that's Craig Ferguson and he's amazing too. Not saying he can't make mistakes, but he's an absolute legend in late night.

just goes to show that even good men are convinced of their assumptions about women
- Or somebody having a fun interesting conversation will be pilloried by Gen Z/Alpha.
  
  He was injecting that to make sure a question that many people would have would be addressed by Carrie.
  
  Lemmy: Durr…. White Man Bad

I don't specifically remember that episode of the late, great, Late Show with Craig Ferguson, but EVERY SINGLE APPEARANCE of the people's princess was magical.

They played off each other so masterfully and both were just their honest selves.

She gave him a set of novelty dried kangaroo testicles on one visit that he regifted to a woman explorer with MS who was going to North Pole.

Craig was, and still is, the master of 1 on 1 interviews.

Conan comes close in his podcast, but doesn’t quite reach the same level
- Most late shows the start of the interview meant bedtime.
  
  For Craig, it was usually the highlight of the show.
- Conan's podcast is fantastic in that regard. I never watched his show much for a variety of reasons, but I can't get enough of his podcast.
  
  Craig's podcast is nearly the same level as his talk show, but it's really dependent upon the guest. Diedrich Bader was quite entertaining.

could i get some more pixels

Found one here on Facebook https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=4821962037877759&vanity=nerdsjustwannahavefun&slug=d41d8cd9

If I am going to need to run, or even take stairs briskly, I need a bra. Or it's going to sting.

My ex would wear bras even though it seemed like she didn't have to.

Her warehouse work attire was loose black shirts with band art on them, so I thought it would camouflage any nipple silhouette.. 🤷 still a mystery to me, but it seemed she was worried about the gaze of others.