Asexual dude here. How can I find content I like easier?
Asexual dude here. How can I find content I like easier?
Hi all. I'm relatively new when it comes to engaging with a community about NSFW content I enjoy, and I've recently been opening up about the type of content I like with people I know.
My biggest struggle is finding NSFW (lewd?) content without sex. I'm a person in a weird grey area where physical intimacy and underwear is fine with me, but sex and nudity tends not to be.
What tips and tricks are there for finding my niche on websites? My only barrier is that I'm not really willing to make an account on Twitter. Thanks in advance!
I believe the "gonemild" communities on Reddit and (hopefully) here will have the content you're looking for, plus the ones with "lewd" in the name. This is majority solo femme-presenting content, though you may find other stuff in there sometimes too.
You can also look for specific garments, like I know there are groups for yoga pants, plaid skirts, pantyhose, jeans, etc.
I see a gonemild community was made here, which is great.
My only issue with the term "lewd" is that I was searching for it as a hashtag on Mastodon.ART, but it kept bringing up content that was too graphic for my liking.
Yeah the meaning tends to wander a bit. Mostly it means "sexy but technically SFW, sometimes up to implied nude", but obviously ymmv and you often get people pushing the limits in order to get included in the hashtag when they don't really belong. In places where there's a place to post explicitly nsfw stuff, "lewd" trends tamer.
Idk about Lemmy, but I know on Reddit there are/were Gonemild subreddits where the people retained some or all of their clothes. I would use that term to look for that niche.
I see there's a community for that here! Thanks for the pointer, that's just about perfect!
Hello fellow asexual!
I like going on gelbooru (which is 99.99% anime style) and using the search "-rating:explicit" (keep the minus sign) and that will get rid of (most) sex. You can filter from there. You can go a step further and only have non-sexual content with "rating:general" (no minus sign)
I am still learning my way around lemmy, but there appear to be some mild communities popping up.
edit: styling
Thanks for the suggestion! I'll be sure to use that site since I haven't really used any of those booru sites save for joking with friends and seeing if r34 applies to "x".
Hope you enjoy the Lemmy space! This account is an alt of mine, but having been active on Lemmy the last two weeks (unrelated to the Reddit thing, weird coincidence), it's a pretty nice space and I hope you come to enjoy it.
So, IDK if it's quite your cup of tea, since it does involve nudity, but I just started !eroticart if you'd like to check it out. Focused more on the artistic side of things
Could you give more info on what content you like? As in, you want couples or single people? In a bedroom or in the office? Something that suggests sex is imminent or just beautiful people? Eye contact or candid photos?
Really all of the above more or less work, save for the candid stuff.