Lemmy feels less anonymous than Reddit, because there are less users and its easier to be remembered. Similar to a small town where everyone knows each other.
Even without usernames. There is some people i recognize by topic, opinion and the way they express themselves. If you spend too much time here that isn't difficult.
I was away for a while as I was travelling, but I'm back now. I think I will reduce my activity for a bit though, I'll post about it on !fedigrow@lemm.ee