It's ok to be wrong about things. Whether it's a relationship, a job, an opinion, whatever. Take ownership of those mistakes and fix whatever it was. You're not a failure because a relationship doesn't work out or that you had the wrong answer at work or a discussion or anything.
I've only found two that were movable. I don't know if I'm somehow missing them or something? I think I'm a decent way into the game. I'm at the point where you actually go into the castle and talk to the duke or whatever.
Dragon's Dogma: Dark Arisen. Really good game but some of travel is rough. Fast travel is very limited. Good combat and I like the pawn system.
Probably not drastically different. Most of my belief system was established before modern Internet was available.