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Trump criticizes ‘non-working holidays’ on Juneteenth
  • Yup. Worse, his actions and his words expose the fact that he is consumed with hatred, for everyone and everything, including himself. But, as an added bonus in his piggy little eyes, he equates carrying my misery with profit for himself.

  • what do you do when your boyfriend doesn’t like your interests, etc?
  • Oof.

    Well, at the least, he may still be coming to terms with how he feels about your transition. But, when I was twenty years younger, I was more self centered than I realized at the time. Society crams this idea down guys' throats that it's the only way to be a "man".

    Sometimes relationships don't work out. We never want to see it, and unfortunately we often go into denial and insist on trying to force something after the "spark" has faded.

    First, take a bit of time to self reflect; how do you really feel about all these things? About the relationship? It'll take courage and emotional fortitude. And I'm not saying you need to give up! Just, take the time to be honest with yourself first, otherwise you can't be honest with someone else.

    Best of luck, and wish for you the courage and strength to find the right path!

  • what do you do when your boyfriend doesn’t like your interests, etc?
  • Hmmm. Yeah, I'd recommend looking for ways to discuss the issue; be direct and blunt as you can, without malice though.

    Also, try not to say "you made me feel"; frame it instead as "I find myself feeling this" type language.

  • what do you do when your boyfriend doesn’t like your interests, etc?
  • Well, yes. It's a power game, believe it or not. Somewhat similar thing happened to me some years back with one of my "bros". In my case, I realized I was always the one to reach out to him; there were a lot of other red flags that showed me our friendship was not as solid as I thought, so eventually I forced myself to not be the one to contact him. It took three months for him to text me. I knew then the friendship had died. 😔

  • what do you do when your boyfriend doesn’t like your interests, etc?
  • Ah, yeah, that might affect the landscape a bit!

    Sorry to hear, though, it does sound like he's dissociating from you. Possibly unintentionally?

    But anyway, I wish you luck. Most important issue is communication. Always is, but unfortunately lots of couples underestimate the importance. I hope you two can communicate honestly; and hope that helps you find a positive outcome for you both!

  • Pentagon cancels multibillion dollar household goods moving contract
  • They got lucky, really. There's no effort to actually identify fraud or waste; just indiscriminately cancelling anything they don't vibe with.

    Nothing this administration has or will do is a good example of how things should be done.

    And frankly, I'm sure they cancelled this contract in the hopes of causing more pain and unrest. I mean, you think these sociopathic fucks actually interact with soldiers and families that tried on this service? They had no idea is was actually wasteful, I'm quite certain of that. Keep in mind, getting rid of fraud and waste is NOT their actual goal with any of this shit.

    That said, I acknowledge my last comment was rather a bit over the top; my apologies.

  • 'No longer need discovery': Trump admin wants Abrego Garcia case dismissed without revealing whether court orders were defied
  • Oh, is it gonna be inconvenient when the documented official record totally contradicts their story? Boo hoo

    Besides, what the fuck do they care - the MAGAt faithful will eagerly reject truth in favor of whatever the fuck they're told to believe.

  • Also, they already had a deal with the US before Trump voided it
  • Way to deflect there, buddy.

    US never had any business "policing" other countries, especially considering how many governments we've been responsible for overthrowing - for nothing more than profit.

    And I couldn't possibly care any less about fear mongering propaganda about how terrifying Iran is. Don't get me wrong, that fucker in charge is a complete bastard. But I don't actually know anything other than the message I'm told to believe - by one of the most corrupt nations on the planet.

    Fuck warmongering. ಠ_ಠ

  • Also, they already had a deal with the US before Trump voided it
  • Do you always advocate preemptive punishment for crimes that have not actually been committed ("yet")?

    And frankly, I didn't trust any of the nuclear powers, especially not the US. Fuck sake we have an orange dementia patient in charge!

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