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  • I get 30+ highway and 25 combined average in my 2002 V6 Accord. In a 4 cylinder you can get 3-4 more to both

    It has like 300K, I grew up in the thing, parents gave it to me and I drive it now. It was not even well taken care of lol

    And yet… it won’t die

  • One way ticket to midnight
  • So, this is gonna sound weird, but I actually find a lot of these bands calming to listen to. I’m autistic, and have a lot of weird sensory issues because of it, so music that’s too simple (a lot of pop or punk or other genres that show up on the radio usually) doesn’t fully grab my attention. Like, there’s not enough happening at once for me to feel immersed in it.

    So I’ll end up listening to Power Metal to fall asleep sometimes because I can hear every instrument individually, and my brain switches focus to each one at random times, and it’s stimulating enough that I can be completely distracted from my other senses and calm down. Dragonforce is my go-to because they even have two lead guitarists at the same time.

    That said, I do have songs of every genre in my library, and if I do want something slower or simpler, there’s a ton of Metal ballads that aren’t necessarily high energy. Try something like Crimson Day by Avenged Sevenfold, Remembrance Day or Trail of Broken Hearts by Dragonforce, Christmas Truce by Sabaton, or Mother Gaia by Stradivarius.

    There’s a lot more examples, but you can certainly have slow, calm metal. I could probably make a decent sized playlist

  • One way ticket to midnight
  • I will!

    Metallica for a dark, thoughtful mood

    Dragonforce for fun, energetic, silly moods

    Mick Gordon’s DOOM soundtrack when working out

    Avenged Sevenfold for a carefree, fuck the world attitude

    Blind Guardian when I’m looking for high fantasy, “take me away” mood

    Sabaton when I want some motivation for work

    Rhapsody of Fire for when I’m cleaning alone and want to get into some classical feeling stuff

    Killswitch Engage when I’m feeling edgy

    Korpiklaani when I’m wanting to go on a run

    Parkway Drive when I’m angry or sad

    There’s so many more than this, and much of these have overlap with specific songs instead of general artists, but this gets the point across, I think

  • Fellow auties, which do you find is a better and healthier fit for you: dating another autistic person or an NT?
  • I married my wife and later we were talking (she knew I was autistic and she has ADHD) and realized she’s probably on the spectrum too, just in different ways than I

    To be honest, it works out well, since our characteristics are complementary. Whether that’s down to being neurodivergent or not, I can’t say.

    My ex I dated for 5 years before that had ADHD too, now that I think about it…. And my best friend realized he’s autistic last year, and we’ve been friends over a decade… Maybe neurodivergent attracts neurodivergent?

  • Small car problems rule
  • I don’t know about where you live, but I often make 150+ mile trips from where I live. Just to and from work is 190, and there’s nowhere to charge at work. I usually work from home, so that’s not a problem, but I just can’t afford to live anywhere closer.

    If I could find one, I’d love to get an old Honda Insighf. Mfers get like 70+ miles to the gallon. With a 10 gallon tank, that could bring you 700 miles! More if you do some mods to it to improve MPG further.

  • Small car problems rule
  • I was at a set of train tracks behind a large truck. Well, in front of him, a car was stalled with hazards on. He looks behind him, backs up to go around the guy, and taps my front bumper. Dude’s truck was so large he couldn’t even see me in the rear view, and the side mirrors made me invisible since the wheel wells were so wide.

    I don’t even drive a tiny car or anything, just a mid-sized sedan….

    I hate driving or riding in large vehicles though. I feel like they’re tall, unwieldy, and I’m short, so I usually can just see high enough to drive but always feel like I’m about to hit everything. Can’t imagine having one as a daily driver.

  • What smartphones are people using nowadays?
  • iPhone 13 Pro. Will probably keep it until the 16 Pro later this year maybe, or I might go another year. Nothing wrong with it so far, I mostly just want a type-C connector for convenience at this point

  • How do you cope with autism?
  • I’m not sure what you mean. What aspects of it?

    I cope with loud noises with AirPods Pro with noise cancellation.

    I cope with communication issues by practicing phrases and explanations.

    I cope with hyperfixation by setting schedules and alarms.

    What do you need help with?

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