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  • This gives so much perspective, and feels like not being alone, thank you.

    Sometimes I struggle with my own, internalized expectations of masculinity and that the world expects a 6'8" guy who also has 0 external feminine traits to behave "like a man" doesn't make it easier.

    I'm so incredibly fortunate to have found a strong woman who will hold me when I cry and loves me for my sensitivity and empathy.

    None of this means I'm gender fluid, I'm... okay, relaxed, not unhappy with my masculinity, sometimes I can even revel in it. But modern sentiments that deconstruct social expectations of gender roles have made it sooooo much easier to just exist, even as a cis man for all the times that I strongly deviate from them. It's only that societal expectations have been internalized hard by my generation and it can still be such a struggle.

    Comments like yours make it easier, because I know I'm not alone in this. Thank you.

  • Liking the French more every year...
  • I keep repeating myself.

    Bernie, AOC, Zohran Mamdani... conservatives shouldn't be shocked by their popularity, they should be thankful.

    Because electing popular lefty politicians through the system and working with the system to change the system is a compromise.

    The working class has other means to defend itself from the overreach of the bourgeoisie inherent in the system, and everyone who wants to hold onto the current system should be extremely thankful that the working class doesn't simply decide to violently overthrow it.

  • What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? June 24
  • "Consider Phlebas", by Iain M. Banks.

    A lemmy thread about favourite fictional society to live in introduced me to The Culture, I'm extremely intrigued by this post-scarcity anarchist space hippy commune and want to find out more.

    It's british space opera, which I incredibly enjoy and it allegedly deconstructs the "lone protagonist has wide raging influence"-trope which I'm also going to enjoy.

  • Is there a song in a foreign language you like the melody to but didnt know the lyrics?
  • I don't speak Spanish, but when I heard Colores by Ska-P ("Por la libertad es fundamental la diversidad") I was instantly in love. The music is great and the lyrics seemed straight up fire.

    Then I translated their songs and now they are my second favourite band, after RATM.

    A Chitón - On repression and censorship in the name of security

    El Vals del Obrero - The Workers Waltz, on unity of the working class

  • I had a neighbour who embalmed his own wife.
  • I kicked a decrepit german shepard to death.

    **WHY?!**

    Wasn't my fault really, the owner had trained his dog to be aggressive and I was deathly afraid of dogs. The animal escaped the leash and charged me, I don't know if it would have bitten me, but I instinctively kicked it in the face... I'm an extremely overweight guy and was scared shitless, that's propably why my leg had some serious power behind it, so I kicked that poor puppies snout straight into its braincase.

    Still have nightmares of that day. Good news is: I have sinced learned to be less afraid and love dogs now. I even regularly put my hand down the throat of a huge japanese Akita Inu who loves me to death and pull on his teeth in play.

  • The UK, Germany and Canada have slashed foreign aid this year, deepening damage done by US cuts, analysis shows | CNN
  • Study after study has shown that the ROI for foreign aid is positive and indicative of an overall positive effect for the country giving the aid.

    I'm only writing that to express that there are no moral and no economical reasons to reduce foreign aid. Even the right should be in favour of aid, as it lessens the amount of immigration and asylum and has a positive effect on GDP.

    The only reasons to reduce foreign aid are populism, a change in political culture of the receiver (for example giving less money to Israel) and to shuffle it around in the budget, for example what Germany did with its infrastructure costs... declaring them a military necessity to be able to increase the military budget to appease Trump while still repairing our roadways.

    But that is afaik not happening here... this is stupid populism.

  • When were you wrong about something?
  • Oh goodness, 24 years ago I was uninformed, narrowminded and had been brought up sheltered and rather conservative. So I used to be hugely trans- and homophobic. I wasn't actively hurting or confronting anyone, but I was definitely a big part of the problem.

    It actually was webcomics that deprogrammed me. That showed me a world I simply did not know but quickly felt empathy for. Those were normal, lovely people who simply existed differently from me, they weren't a threat and they had so many struggles pushed on them only for being different.

    Today I'm far-left, progressive, super empathetic, happy that a lesbian friend calls me "one of the good ones" and that I, as a huuuuuge white cis guy, can be an ally and create a safe space around me for everyone who needs it.

  • influencer maga-ting is wild
  • Do you folks like coffee?
    Real coffee
    From the Hills
    Of Colombia?

    The Duncan Hills will wake you
    From a thousand deaths
    A cup of blackened blood
    (Dying, dying)
    You're dying for a cup
    Guatemala blend
    Ethiopian
    French vanilla roast
    (Dying, dying)
    You're dying for a cup

    Prepare for ultimate flavor
    You're gonna get some now
    And scream... for your cream
    Duncan Hills
    Duncan Hills
    Duncan Hills Coffee

    https://youtu.be/2I1GhXjIG6o

  • Political Memes @lemmy.world Enkrod @feddit.org
    Trump's signature pattern

    Source

    > # Heil Trump > > Trump’s political signature, like all fascist signatures, has always followed only but one purpose: his. In his world, the concept of We exists only as tapestry-booster for his ego and his self-importance as a projection screen for his feverish supporters. It is a cult, not a legacy. The US president is not a king, he is a fascist.

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    Just this! But also more...

    If you want JUST DÖNER, but also crave other things.

    Sorry about the image-quality, was a drive-by-📸. It says JUST DÖNER — döner and more

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    www.t-online.de Großer Polizeieinsatz in der Mannheimer Innenstadt

    In der Mannheimer Innenstadt kommt es am Rosenmontag zu einem Vorfall.

    Großer Polizeieinsatz in der Mannheimer Innenstadt

    > In Mannheim läuft ein großer Polizeieinsatz in der Innenstadt. Einem dpa-Reporter zufolge waren am Ort des Geschehens Trümmer zu sehen, mindestens eine Person lag demnach abgedeckt unter einer Plane. Augenzeugen zufolge war ein Fahrzeug in eine Menschenmenge gefahren. > > Der Vorfall ereignete sich nach Polizeiangaben am zentralen Paradeplatz. Polizei und Rettungskräfte seien auf der Anfahrt, teilte das Polizeipräsidium in Mannheim mit. In der Innenstadt könne es zu Verkehrsbeeinträchtigungen kommen.

    Die Politzei bittet darum die Mannheimer Innenstadt zu meiden

    Mannheim24 berichtet

    > Polizei und Rettungskräfte sind vor Ort, ein Hubschrauber kreist über den Quadraten.

    > Laut einer Reporterin von MANNHEIM24 vor Ort wurde ein Täter gefasst, weitere Täter können aber nicht ausgeschlossen werden. Die Einsatzkräfte vor Ort stünden unter Hochspannung und können keine weiteren Informationen geben. Die gesamten Planken vom Wasserturm bis zum Paradeplatz sind vollständig abgesperrt. > > Der betroffene Bereich wird evakuiert, Bürger und Bürgerinnen werden aufgefordert, die Innenstadt zu verlassen – der Fastnachtsmarkt in der Innenstadt ist geschlossen. Auch die Brücken nach Ludwigshafen werden kontrolliert, das Universitätsklinikum Mannheim hat mittlerweile Katastrophen-Alarm ausgerufen.

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    Kleine Anfrage der CDU/CSU Fraktion offenbart eine Liste der Organisationen und Medien denen die Union gerne den Geldhahn zudrehen würde

    Die aktuelle "kleine Anfrage" (immerhin 551 Punkte) der Union an die Bundesregierung offenbart eine Liste der Organisationen die offenbar von der kommenden Regierung Merz als feindlich eingestuft werden und deren Fördergelder man gerne kürzen oder denen man die Allgemeinnützigkeit aberkennen möchte. Das sind unter anderem:

    • Correctiv Magazin,
    • Omas gegen Rechts,
    • Campact,
    • Attac,
    • Amadeu Antonio Stiftung,
    • PETA,
    • Animal Rights Watch,
    • Foodwatch,
    • Deutsche Umwelthilfe,
    • Greenpeace,
    • Bund für Umwelt und Naturschutz Deutschland (BUND)

    Ich nehme das einfach mal als Spendenempfehlung

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    Community für überregionale Wahlen @feddit.org Enkrod @feddit.org
    www.tagesschau.de Nach Wahl: Habeck will keine Führungsrolle mehr bei den Grünen

    Grünen-Kanzlerkandidat Habeck zieht aus dem enttäuschenden Abschneiden seiner Partei bei der Bundestagswahl persönliche Konsequenzen. Er wolle keine wichtige Funktion in seiner Partei mehr ausfüllen, erklärte er.

    Nach Wahl: Habeck will keine Führungsrolle mehr bei den Grünen
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    Political Memes @lemmy.world Enkrod @feddit.org
    Bernie was our compromise

    If they can elect a felon to the white house, so could we.

    Edit: Better image, thanks to @PresidentCamacho@lemm.ee

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    Strands #282 “Something to see” | 2024-12-10
    www.nytimes.com Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Find hidden words and uncover the day’s theme.

    Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Strands #282 “Something to see” 🔵🟡🔵🔵 💡🔵🔵🔵 🔵 Damn I'm blind

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    Strands #281 “Quiet at first” | 2024-12-09
    www.nytimes.com Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Find hidden words and uncover the day’s theme.

    Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Strands #281 “Quiet at first” 🔵💡🔵💡 🔵🔵🟡🔵 🔵

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    Travle.Earth #726 | 2024-12-09
    travle.earth travle

    Travle: A daily game, get between countries in as few guesses as possible!

    travle

    #travle #726 +0 (Perfekt) ✅✅✅✅✅ https://travle.earth/

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    Order Up 222 | 2024-12-08
    orderup.games Order Up: a daily puzzle game

    Put a list of items in order based on a daily theme

    Order Up: a daily puzzle game

    ``` Order Up 222 3/5 ⬇️

    🟢 🟢 🟢 ⚪ ⚪ 🟢 ⚪ ⚪ 🟢 ⚪ ⚪ 🟢 ⚪ ⚪ 🟢 🟢 🟢 🟢 🟢 🟢 🟢

    https://orderup.games/ ```

    Well this is awkward

    I did not know those phrases were meant to be translated, I simply ordered by nations from a very rough understanding of who goes where.

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    Travle.Earth #725 | 2024-12-08
    travle.earth travle

    Travle: A daily game, get between countries in as few guesses as possible!

    travle

    #travle #725 +1 🟩🟩🟧✅ https://travle.earth/

    I think I always went around in my training, never through the middle. Still happy about this, my first move was a guess to orient myself and it paid off immediatly.

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    Strands #280 “A timely theme” | 2024-12-08
    www.nytimes.com Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Find hidden words and uncover the day’s theme.

    Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Strands #280 “A timely theme” 🔵🔵🔵🟡 🔵🔵🔵🔵

    This was easy

    Thank you Wristwatch Revival

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    Quordle Classic 1049 | 2024-12-08

    ``` 🙂 Daily Quordle 1049 8️⃣9️⃣ 7️⃣4️⃣ m-w.com/games/quordle/ 🟨⬜⬜🟨⬜ ⬜⬜⬜🟩⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜🟨 ⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜ 🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜ 🟨🟨⬜⬜⬜ ⬜🟨⬜⬜⬜ 🟨🟨⬜⬜⬜ 🟩⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜🟩 ⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜ ⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜⬜🟨⬜🟨 ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

    ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜🟨⬜🟨⬜ 🟨🟩⬜⬜⬜ 🟨🟨⬜🟨⬜ ⬜⬜🟨⬜🟨 🟨🟨🟩🟩🟩 ⬜⬜🟨⬜🟨 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩⬜🟨⬜ ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ⬜🟩🟩⬜🟩 ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ```

    Got it on the last try 🥵

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    Daily Extreme Quordle | 2024-12-07

    ``` 🥵 Daily Extreme 131 6️⃣8️⃣ 🟥4️⃣ m-w.com/games/quordle/ ⬜🟨⬜🟨⬜ ⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜ 🟨⬜⬜⬜🟩 🟩⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜🟨⬜⬜⬜ ⬜🟨🟨🟨⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜ ⬜⬜🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩🟨⬜⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜ ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ 🟩🟩⬜⬜🟨 ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

    ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜⬜🟩⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬜⬜🟨🟨⬜ 🟨⬜⬜🟩🟩 ⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩⬜⬜⬜ ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜ ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ⬜🟩⬜🟨🟨 ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ⬜🟩🟩🟩⬜ ⬛⬛⬛⬛⬛ ```

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    Decipher #172 2024-12-07
    decipher.wtf decipher

    Decipher a new quote every day! Test your skills with this new daily brainteaser.

    decipher

    Decipher #172 deciphered in ⏱️ 4m 30s ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ https://decipher.wtf/

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    Strands #279 | 2024-12-07
    www.nytimes.com Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Find hidden words and uncover the day’s theme.

    Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Strands #279 “Prepare to be eaten” 🔵🔵🔵🔵 🔵🟡🔵

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    Strands Dezember 6, 2024 #278
    www.nytimes.com Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Find hidden words and uncover the day’s theme.

    Play Strands, our newest word-search game with a twist.

    Strands #278 “Find your people” 🔵🔵🔵🔵 🔵🟡🔵🔵

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    Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | 2024-10-30
    www.britannica.com Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | Britannica

    A daily trivia game with 9 interesting questions. If you get three wrong…you lose. Question categories include science, arts, history, animals and math.

    Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | Britannica

    Tightrope, a daily trivia game | Britannica

    Oct. 30, 2024

    T I G H T R O P E ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ 🎉

    My Score: 1970

    Spoiler

    Ok, the million-dollar-dress question one was pure luck again, I should not get away with guessing so much.

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    Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | 2024-10-29
    www.britannica.com Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | Britannica

    A daily trivia game with 9 interesting questions. If you get three wrong…you lose. Question categories include science, arts, history, animals and math.

    Tightrope, a Daily Trivia Game | Britannica

    ``` Tightrope, a daily trivia game | Britannica

    Oct. 29, 2024

    T I G H T R O P E ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ ✅ 🎉

    My Score: 1840 ```

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    Flipple #151 ⬇️
    flipple.clevergoat.com Flipple | Daily Word Guessing Game

    You are shown two words. You goal is to transform the starting word to the target word. You can only change one letter at a time.

    ``` Flipple 4 #151 ⬇️ 🟩🟩⬜⬜ 🟩🟩⬜🟩 🟩🟩🟩🟩

    Flipple 5 #151 ⬇️ 🟩⬜⬜🟩⬜ 🟩⬜🟩🟩⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩⬜ 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 ```

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    Enkrod @feddit.org

    Webdeveloper from Germany, nerd, gamer, atheist, interested in nerd-culture, biology of everything creepy, evolution, history, physics, politics and space.

    Progressive. Ally. SocDem. Euro-Federalist.

    Political Compass: -7.0, -6.62

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