Anon is in hell

How the hell do you manage to get banned from dating apps?

There might be a link between the bans from dating apps and the "not been in a long-term relationship"...
- Add another link to posting on 4chan. I'm sure they are just a SWELL.
Usually being verbally abusive toward "females"
- "Hello bambinos"
My wife's best friend has been banned a couple times and is waiting to appeal her tinder ban again.
Although often justifiable based on the ways these guys have acted/spoke to her, it's usually because she's super ruthless in her response. A guy got mad she wasn't interested in just being a booth call after she said she's there for dates too, said she was after a free meal (paying hadn't come up yet, and she always pays for herself unless a guy insists) and so she tore into him. And she's brutal. Another had ghosted her after rescheduling on the date twice and saying stuff came up and that he's busy (days after the fact, no check in or nothing) and so she told him that's some horse shit and that he's a little bitch that needs to get his life in order if he's gonna stand somebody up twice after begging for a second chance.
She definitely could be nicer sometimes, but from what I've read from her it's no different than how I see a lot of dudes talk on there, I think those guys just got their feelings hurt more than standard tinder girls do.
- So someone who can't control their temper got banned. The system works.
- I can see why she's single LMAO
I used to go to school with a lady that was perma banned from Tinder last year. My guess is she replied to creepy/perverted messages with enough hostility that they yeeted her straight off the platform.
- A friend of mine said she got banned because she shared a link. It was a link to some gif or something. I almost got banned because I had a picture of myself as a kid on there and apparently people felt the need to report me over that
They shadowban you if you're ugly.
In all honesty I've gotten banned from a couple. Turns out they don't usually take account security super seriously. Stop using it for a bit, and suddenly it's sending out obvious scam bait messages lol
You can also get banned from dating apps for not using them the way the app wants you to. For example not messaging people back or not swiping right enough on tinder.
- Source?
Mental mal-adjustment
M'lady
I've literally been asking that question. A lot of people never get to know why they're banned.
Match Group owns the biggest ones, and sometimes people seem to get banned from all of them at once.
But Google Play Store also disallows installing dating apps for some people. Very unclear why, because there's no official word on them doing it.
Maybe it's for legitimate reasons, but given these companies dominance, I find it disconcerning.

oh no, the consequences of my inaction

Being banned from dating apps is probably consequences for their actions.
- Lack of license and being an alcoholic is probably consequences as well.

This dude reads like a sociopath. The system works.

Seriously. You need to really try to get banned from a dating app, let alone apps plural.

I'm sure there are countless social or personal reasons for it, but kids having kids without being taught responsibility or how life works means you get a lot of unfortunate children growing up who were never taught about making plans and goals in life, nor are they provided resources to be successful past childhood when you're just expected to exist and nobody gives a flying fuck about you.

What did I ever do to you?
- Exist, jerk face

probably said the N word too many times

Then go do some stuff that will improve your life?

Yes, step 1. Stop drinking. Step 2. Get a job, any job. The rest fall in to place.

OI! He doesn’t have a loisense to be lonely, git ‘im!!!

...wayne?

You'll suffer nicely for the sake of shareholder profits.

This person is not even among the unemployed reservation, so how is this about capitalism?
- They have no value to capitalism other than raw, unskilled, undifferentiated labour and consumption. They are nothing but the grease that gets mashed into the gears of the machine.
  I think humans are worth more than that, and OP's framing.
- This is Lemmy. Everything is capitalism's fault.
How are shareholders making money off an alcoholic NEET? Apart from him buying the cheapest possible booze they can get their hands on, obviously.
- They get labour at poverty rates under threat of homelessness and starvation, and a hungry mouth to create (limited) demand for goods.
Banned from dating apps? Is that a thing?
- You can get banned from a certain dating app, there are a lot of psychopaths dwelling. But I am not aware of some kind of black list for dating apps.
- If you're too uggo they ban you

Methinks the last item on the list might be somehow affecting the others...but certainly life is just hell for this guy and there's nothing that can be done but type about it

I didn't know you even could be banned from dating apps

Too many folks stuck in a boat like this nowadays :-(

If they don't have a license that's a problem that they made, if they don't have a job that's probably because they drink too much and are unreliable (that may also be why they don't have a license) and if they are an alcoholic that's probably their core problem.
All of anons issues are their own, it's not society's fault they're in this situation. Although I am sure they would not agree.
- Not having a license isn't actually an issue; you can save a lot of money by not driving a car.
  This guy is probably just depressed and the lack of sympathy and support from others is only exacerbating and perpetuating the problem. People like him need love and support from external sources to be able to heal their inner wounds and fix their problems.
  Life stuff like what he's listing is never the actual source of the problem.