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  • Some truly interesting perspectives in this guy's story. I'm pretty conscious of some of this stuff as I raise two boys.

    The bathroom and handshake things are real. Some things are more nuanced like the office admin stuff.

    The diet one is new and baffling though. There's definitely office banter about food. I haven't ever been aware of it being gender based, though.

  • This is the best summary I could come up with:


    This is a glaring contrast to women's public bathrooms, which can feel like stepping into a feminist support group.

    The chatter, the laughter, the occasional tears and waves of support for those crying makes for a heartening sense of camaraderie and solidarity.

    It turns out that's how many men shake hands with each other — and I had a steep learning curve ahead to perfect this ritual.

    If you have a feminine-sounding voice, it can lead to an onslaught of verbal abuse, harassment and misogyny from players online.

    As a woman, you're made constantly aware of how much sound you're making where it seems that men aren't conditioned to be attuned to that at all.

    At work I'm no longer asked, or expected, to organise gifts for farewells or birthdays, morning teas or lunches, or plans like booking meeting rooms, sending invites, taking minutes or extra administrative tasks.


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  • The part where the women was looking back over her shoulder at him and he turned around to check if someone was following them made me laugh.

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