Both sides are frustratingly stupid. Both sides are doing absolutely vile and inhumane things. Both sides will never stop because both sides are fucking stupid
A hallow criticism, given that china runs forced labour camps full of Uyghur people (and political prisoners), and is in territory dispute with every neighbor. Not the mention, successfully erased the Tibetan people, and is doing the same to Muslims now.
If you think about it, it is quite an accomplishment that they managed to make communist Vietnam dislike them so much, that they'd rather engage in relatively close military ties with the US. Public opinion towards the US is also surprisingly good. I mean, the US committed plenty of atrocities during the war, so you'd expect them to be far more negative than those towards China.