Honestly I've stopped being super involved in the fediverse not just because I have no time but also because I realized there's so little space to just exist without dickbags.
I got a lot better at not replying to them... only to realize that I was never replying to anything. So I took a break.
I find it hard to leave the safety of blåhaj. Just all sorts of bigots and toxic people out there. Not all of lemmy, sure, but enough that I don't like looking around.
Now you have me spiraling, because I can’t decide whether I like “womenstuff” or “WomensStuff” better. I always like eating a letter, but it’s easier for people to remember the other
The amount of condescending comments I get on lemmy is too damn high. So much of "I know better than you girl" tone around here.
Yeah it's so patronising, it's like they're an adult thinking they're talking to a child or smth. sorry it happened to you
Ughh!! I'm sorry.
It seems like really niche, heavily moderated online spaces are the only place safe from that sort of crock.
Ugh, which comms? I've found the opposite on my stomping grounds, but i'm always up for a good fight
Certain individuals are problematic I literally had a moderators come from certain a comm harass me in the comments assuming a whole lot.
It's pretty fucking bad just in general, no specific platform required.