I feel like such a bad boyfriend
I feel like such a bad boyfriend
Yesterday, my boyfriend was very stressed and was going through a lot of family issues. I told him I couldn't stay for long. My family is strict and wanted me to go to bed and not be on my phone. My boyfriend then was asking where I was and why I was offline and not responding. He must not have seen my message but I had to go. And I feel so bad that he didn't read it and that I had to go, I feel like such an awful person for not being able to help. I know I suck, I know I just could've snuck it, but I just want someone to listen. Not criticism, please, like many people have said.
You shouldn’t ever feel bad for having healthy boundaries.
I would say that as an 18 year old you should have more of a say in how and when you use your phone, but I don’t know the specifics of your situation.
How old are you? You don't sound like a bad person. I'm sorry your bf was having a rough time, but did you explain what happened? I would not necessarily recommend sneaking around your parents if it can end with you getting in trouble. If your boyfriend cannot be understanding of that then it is not healthy behavior on their end.