Agreed, I'm not a fan of being stared at like that just because I'm trans and a tomboy. Happens often (especially since I'm still unfortunately pre-HRT, not for long though).
In a weird way, I wish this could happen to me once. Strangers just read me as a fruity guy and my gender fuckery goes unrecognised... But I realise it would grow old, fast.
Sometimes I'm really glad having a trans femboy friend. The synergy/energy between us two rarities can be so fun. Maybe I'll get to post some fun stories and encounters with me and my brother in crime.