eh only bad healers feel like that. when I play overwatch and a really good mercy is on my team she feels like a deity, not a bottom. omnipresent, omniscient and omnipotent.
Tanks, being de facto leaders, are tops. Inexperienced tanks are often insecure due to it being a high pressure role, which I guess makes them like soft boi tops or something. Experienced ones are either raging assholes or fatherly and wise. The latter is like a silver daddy I guess LOL
This is a meme for 12 year old boys who think the way they like to press buttons is somehow being the top. We're apes staring at a screen and smacking buttons for dopamine hits. No more, no less.