What are the words the average person would use to describe these experiences which all give off the same energy

Needing experience to get a job Needing existing friends to make more friends Needing relationship history to begin a relationship

I guess I’m just trying to say that everything seems unattainable if you’re atypical maybe? I know some of these phenomena can be felt/noticed by all people regardless of neurotype but they seem to be more common for NTs like myself