Just learned yesterday big C. in the bowel. Looks like IV.
The last 8 months have been hell for her ever since that fall and now completely unrelated.. this. Pretty limited therapy when pushing 80yo. She'll be going in for an op but chemo/radio is out of the question. Working out the spread basically means just working out (guessing) how long.
Shit, that's awful. It's like an avalanche of medical suffering. I'm really sorry mate. I hope you'll be able to spend some quality time with her in the coming months