Cat TMI, poop talk
Melbcat has started having frequent little accidents and while Iām hoping that itās only temporary Iām scared that she might be losing control of her bowels.
Sheās still seeming mostly comfortable, bright and alert, still eating and washing herself. No current urinary incontinence. Sheās stopped crying since this started.
Iām just spiraling because Iām aware age is catching up to her and Iām terrified of the future. I feel about Melbcat the way people feel about their child.
Thereās a crack in everything
Itās where the light gets in
There wasnāt that much I could have at Aldi and Kmart is no longer cheap. Oof
I donāt know whatās up with me. I have things to do but just canāt lock in.
Edit: Coles is absolutely taking the piss on some of their prices. Iām considering getting this weeks load of stuff from Aldi while I have someone with me to help⦠it still involves prolonged standing while I check ingredients and the general hassle of it. It is much easier to get delivery in the cheap slots.
Iāll ask them to help me drop off the clothing donations and see how I feel.
A thick blanket works well too
Ok thanks, Iāll check it out
Thatās a great idea!
The snow peas I planted to add nitrogen back to the soil in my pots were straight up eaten, and while I have some drink bottle hats for the early stages even more mature plants become lunch. I donāt currently have the energy to stay on top of that.
That works fine because Australian natives donāt need as much and Iām now planning to turn the pots over to some of the smaller varieties for something lower maintenance. There is one lonely nasturtium surviving in the area I tried to regreen but Iām tired of having my flowers ruined. Pots for pollinators it is.
(One annoyance though is I had bought a larger container of liquid fertiliser intended for vegetables and not suited to natives. I think that can go on the pots of cat grass.)
Iāll have to rip the tomatoes out in four of them. Tommy toes are a game little variety. Looking a little ragged but still alive and fruiting.
Iāve harvested from the Jack Be Little vines - all 6 tiny pumpkins. I have them on the windowsill to cure. The fruit whose vine died of dryness before it was quite ripe yet is starting to orange up a little now. I would have loved to see some golden nuggets but those plants grew slower and like I said also got eaten.
I still havenāt had the energy to get the compost bin started but perhaps the weather is too cold for it to really get the decomp going? Perhaps Iāll leave the leaves for the bugs to shelter in and clean up whatās left when theyāre done.
Thereās not much to be done over Winter so Iām deciding what my plans are for Spring.
Are you planning or prepping anything? Improving the soil over winter?
I donāt think anyone saw the last thread so if you think your pump lotion has run out, even after adding a little water and shaking, open it and look inside. It seems the pump bottle is very inefficient packaging and thereās quite a lot left. I initially planned to cut the bottle open to decant but might check whether an old Cetaphil cap fits. If it does I can just store the bottle upside down and squeeze the last of it out. Another cap might work, try what you have.
I bought a better pair of supermarket slippers with thick rubber soles to keep the cold floor from seeping through.
Iām also back to trying to find a safe Linux iso to make an old computer usable again. It has a disc drive so it can be used to watch dvds and function as a temporary backup if my current one breaks.
Iāve put the heater on a few times but am mostly managing with extra layers, electric blanket, hot water bottles and hot drinks. Still not looking forward to the bills.
In the mid-month of winter, cold are our feet. Buy you some slippers? Drink a hot treat?
Edit: EOFY sales are also on. Iām deciding if thereās anything I genuinely could use and putting it in the basket to think about.
Iāll have to dig more into it and see what other people are doing
Thanks, itās on the pricey side but might last. Iāve added it to the basket to think on
I have a hair type thatās difficult to get dry/takes a long time even after being towel dried and combed, so the cheap Kmarget hairdryers overheat and shut down while half my head is still wet. Often repeatedly.
With EOFY sales on can anyone recommend a decent hairdryer that still has a reasonable budget? Iām thinking a basic workhorse under $50. No special features are really needed.
(Not really in the market for brushes or tools or things for a styling blow dry, I just need a dryer that will let me rough dry my roots with my fingers so my scalp isnāt sitting damp for a long time.)
You might like chip shop curry or Japanese curry. Iāve never had either but theyāre said to be milder
Iād test drive it for you if I could! (I really miss mild Indian food)
But Aldi products get a lot of informal reviews so I recommend having a google around. I found some but not sure about etiquette of linking FB or the other place.
If youāre not a spice fan and unsure whether youāll like it it might be better to make your own version to avoid ruining anything you put it on. Tinned tomatoes and spice packets are cheap. Or buy it and first try a smear on toast to avoid throwing out a meal.
Otherwise buy a tub of Greek yogurt to mix in or blend with some cheap fruit for a lassi. Yogurt and milk in general have a cooling effect because the fat insulates your mouth from the spicy oils, and Greek yogurt tends to be creamier and fattier.
If youāre worried about it not being spicy enough⦠I donāt know, never had that problem but you can add heat.
Thanks for the offer! Iāve managed to create bootable installations and install them before, and run simple commands, but tended to skip this step. Itās not a problem with directions either, I faithfully followed the verification guide which worked. The numbers just donāt match.
It may genuinely be an issue with the isos as someone else who got as far as installation is talking about corrupted files. https://www.linux.org/threads/linux-mint-cinnamon-22-1-and-virtualbox.56035/
The distribution I was downloading was Cinnamon 22.1 but Iām wondering if I should try Ubuntu
Iāve only skimmed the first few posts but adding it here so I donāt lose it
Iām going to double check. It looks like I went to linuxmint.com and chose Cinnamon.
And when the numbers didnāt match I tried mirrors (which claimed to be from reputable sources like universities and looked legit) to do the sha hashing steps on those too.
Seems in March someone on linux.org was talking about bad isos, Iāmma read through and see if they found a solution.
https://www.linux.org/threads/linux-mint-cinnamon-22-1-and-virtualbox.56035/
With luck sheāll visit to leave her mark again
This grant is a great step, kitten season is coming
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Yes Coles are price gougers and part of a duopoly so I hate recommending them.
But if the drop off part of things is a challenge at least thereās the option to use this.
Seems Yarrabyte has got on the beers?
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(Posting a few days early to remember)
Winter is coming, bills will be high. Do you have tips to help us get by?
(Posting a few days early while I remember)
Winter is coming. Any plans?
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Things are really bad in my area and Victoria is the only Australian state that still charges for methadone. Thereās not much I can do individually but share resources and hope it helps someone.
HRVic's PAMS service provides info and help with and around Methadone/Suboxone/Subutex programs in Victoria

An advocacy service over the phone for people living with opioid dependence.
Thereās not much I can do but share resources and hope it helps someone.
HRVic's PAMS service provides info and help with and around Methadone/Suboxone/Subutex programs in Victoria

An advocacy service over the phone for people living with opioid dependence.
Thereās not much I can do but share resources and hope it helps someone.
It's really cooling down now⦠What are your plans if any?
Prices are always rising.
What have you found good for saving a dollar?
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Temporary residents are allowed to keep using their overseas license.
Edit: Sorry, I was unclear on the message of the article and accidentally posted a misleading headline.
TL;DR: There are changes for permanent residents but temporary residents can keep using their overseas licenses.
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Frico, is the ultimate comfort food. Potatoes and onions sauteed until soft then fried with lots of Italian cheese. Soft, crispy and delicious!

This looks cheap and filling for the colder months. It was originally a poverty food so Iād just use whatever cheese is cheap or available.
Prices are always rising.
What have you found good for saving a dollar?
The leaves are falling... What are your plans over Autumn?
Trying to get my head around crop rotation.
Itās not traditionally used for pots I donāt think but I just canāt face the physical job of emptying and sterilising all the soil and pots or buying more potting mix after the tomatoes and zucchini are spent. (They got hit by black spot and powdery mildew despite the spraying.)
Iām willing to pull out and dispose of the spent diseased plants afterwards and maybe dig in some manure but am trying to avoid the physical labour of emptying the pots and thought of treating them more like a garden bed.
Maybe Iāll try just chucking a different fungal resistant plant in there afterwards. Perhaps it might be ok if I choose resistant hybrids. Beans and peas are recommended after tomatoes and zucchini to restore nitrogen but also get fungal diseases so I donāt know.
I could just be lazy and do a manure crop over autumn or winter.