I love them the same no matter what, but some parents are not like that. Particularly narcissistic parents base their relationships with their children around conditional love. This teaches the child that they need to have certain qualities in order to deserve love, which can then turn the child into a narcissist.
You give us too much credit. It took us over a hundred years just to finish terrorizing our own country. Then maybe Americans were okay with Spanish war up to the Korean War. But I’ll tell you a majority pf American have been against all war since Vietnam in 1964 we just have no power. And Vietnam I would argue is where our reign of terror began. So you really mean 61 years of begging to stop going to war.
It really sucks being a sane American right now. Like yeah you should boycott the US because money is the only language they speak, but it’s people like me who are going to suffer for it. Trump and his buddies are going to be fine. Feel like I’m rooting for my own downfall.
I’ve quit and gone back a few times over the last decade or so. Easiest time quitting recently was with zyns. Started with the 6 mg then to 3mg when I was ready. The rule was I’d put one in every time I thought about going to buy a vape. Weened myself pretty naturally.
Cursed