Same for me, OSDD here with one known alter, at least one main one
In Portuguese, I find it funny that gato/gata could be someone attractive or a literal cat.
Not quite. I have a separate account for Mark, but he’s an alter rather than a persona.
I think he doesn’t love you, not really. He just doesn’t wanna be alone.
It sounds like a roundabout way of saying he wants out. “I don’t wanna hurt you by breaking up with you but I want out.” Also, saying you wear him out means he’s calling you exhausting.
From my experience with a friend, this usually means they’re tired of you, don’t feel like talking, or just a mean person who doesn’t like you and is gonna ditch you. Hopefully, it’s the second. He also could be depressed.
Imagine hating your gf’s favorite TV show. My girlfriend never says she hates my shows even if she doesn’t watch them.
Damn dude 😭 Feels blunt, I hope she forgave you.
I agree with the other comments. Sometimes, people are more inclined to want to fix things like you, while your girlfriend just wants to talk. I saw you said you would try this, which is good, but try empathizing with her and just listening to what she has to say. “I’m so sorry, that sounds horrible!” would even work.
