I've seen many online self-assessments that use some version of the DSM questionnaire that you've mentioned. I have a hard time committing to a binary answer to an open question so these are always a nightmare for me. My answer is usually something more like "sort of" or "depends" and I get very stressed out that I'm not being truthful or accurate. I've found ways to manage my symptoms out of necessity over the years and I think that might skew my answer to some of the questions also. I still usually end up answering "yes" to five of them, but that seems like I'm on the cusp. I just feel like a list of 9 written questions lacks nuance and that's why I was hoping to hear that a more holistic approach would be part of the diagnosis process.
For those of you who weren't diagnosed until adulthood (I'm in my late 40s), what was the diagnosis process like? Are you just given a written test, or does someone evaluate you more thoroughly? Do they try to understand your symptoms, or is it more of a checklist? If anyone has personal stories they'd be willing to share, I'd love to hear them. I'm also just curious about what to expect during the appointment. Who do I make it with? A psychiatrist?
I also wonder if there are other related conditions or learning disabilities that I might have, such as dyslexia. Do I need to be proactive in asking for multiple diagnoses? Or will they be able to evaluate me for anything/everything?