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Yo I called in sick to work today after I posted this and put in an 8 hour shift on Silksong instead aaaah

wut

Lol why is this so relatable. All or nothing

I feel like you're posting your homework questions on here

Not to be dramatic but I would kill for Pepper if she asked

I'm always surprised by the hate for the first episode, or people telling folks to skip it/start with a different one. It feels like the most Black Mirrory episode they ever made imo. It's horrifying and grotesque. The visceral disgust we have to the beastiality with relatively little acknowledgment of the fact that the PM is not only being raped, but having to actively participate in it, in front of an audience. The joking disregard it's treated with as it escalates, and then everyone watches it against the request of the victim. The fact that it was all ultimately pointless anyway. And that after it was over, people just expect things to go back to normal. That it even raised his approval rating. While his psyche and marriage will never recover.

That brief moment of regret everyone has when watching, when it actually happens and the collective realization hits. When they realize they don't actually want to watch this and it is not a joke. You turn off the screen but that person you are is staring right back at you, ready to consume the next dehumanizing thing to distract. That's the show, man.

It's really actually the same theme as White Bear, which I also liked, but imo sadly more plausible.

What behaviors or experiences caused you to explore the idea of it being disordered rather than just atypical? How was it disrupting your life?

Maybe you have already tried this, but if you can get a hold of an iPad and the app Procreate, please try it out. You can customize your different brushes in ways that I think might help with your particular mobility issues (e.g. add more stabilization, remove or alter the pressure sensitivity). You can also do things like draw a curve but hold your pen down, and then it smooths and turns into a shape you can resize or change the arc of. Same with lines (wiggly become straight).

The artist wound is so real. ❤️

The pros/cons seem stacked because they are. This is coming from my perspective of someone who has chosen not to have children, but has friends who have.

It's not something you can really pro/con to make the "right" choice. You have to want to do it in spite of it changing your relationship, your body, your lifestyle, your everything. In some ways better, some worse. Some changes will evolve or ebb and flow with the seasons of life, and some will just be permanent.

I know that I can't handle all that uncertainty, all that change. And while I also never really had the desire to raise and shape a child, as I've gotten older I've realized that I get to have those moments. In doses I can handle and without sacrifices, because they are not my kids. I'm an auntie (biological and chosen). I have plenty of friends with kids (and plenty without). I feel like I get the best of both worlds.

Imagine your life in both scenarios. What brings you the most joy?

I hope you recover from your carbrain

I'm not talking about boycotting shitty companies, though. Just like, boycotting capitalism. To the degree that's even possible. We need food, shelter, and utilities.

But clothes? Repair, swap, thrift.

Entertainment? Cancel streaming services, stop going out to movies. Don't use social media sites that make money by showing you ads. Play cards or board games, read or listen to books from the library. Trade things with friends when you get bored of what you have instead of just buying new stuff. Touch grass.

I'm not saying I do all of this stuff or that it would be easy, but lots of people doing this consistently would make a much bigger difference than boycotting shitty companies piecemeal.

Opting out of consumerism. Not that it's legal disobedience, but it's certainly social disobedience that would get the attention of and take power from the corporations who control our politicians. Yes we can't stop buying everything completely, going to a barter system for everything is not feasible. But we can at least stop buying so much crap.

And "sorry can you repeat that?"

Has your employer said they are firing you because of this?

Paying for paying isn't the problem. Americans expecting free parking is why we're so cooked with climate change. The problem is how much we're paying for the (crappy) healthcare.

I've been actively suicidal before and it sucks, so I'm not gonna give you any "permanent solution to a temporary problem" bullshit. But what I learned in my extensive research is that it's really hard to effectively kill yourself. If anything goes sideways, it's pretty likely that you not only won't die but your life will be way way worse. You think you're unhirable now, just wait until you have a hypoxic brain injury.

As the kids on tiktok were saying for a bit: suicide is cringe, don't kill yourself

Do you have anyone in your life you trust to talk to about this?

What kinda of things get them banned arbitrarily?

Grow your tooth into an eye while it's implanted in your cheek. Totally normal

I'm currently in "do a week's worth of work in 2 days" hyperfocus. Building up my nest egg for the next time my brain says I need to spend several days spending less than 15 minutes on actual work.

"The typical female pet owner spends more time actively engaged with her pet than she spends in face-to-face contact with friends of her own species."

And?