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What is hexbear?
  • Well, cool, but you're a highschooler so you don't have much real world experience, though being a closeted queer as a highschooler is definitely a hellish and radicalizing experience, I've been there. Also, as a trans person thats been transitioned for a long time, you begin to realize the number of allies you have is very few and debate is very much a waste of time (fun for cis people, terrifying for trans people) and its far more important to build independence and resilience for the community and remove awful people from your life. Hexbear has mutual aid drives and housing support groups that have saved many trans people from homelessness and even their lives. Think: does SJW or lemmy.world do the same, or are they just all hot air and complain about 'tankies' in a vague way while doing nothing? Is it fine to be rude to people who think debating your existence and the existence of other marginalized people is good fun?

  • What is hexbear?
  • A place with a high amount of queer and trans socialists that all the cishets on the fediverse mald about. The instance is something like 66% queer / queer adjacent and 51% are trans / trans adjacent. Essentially, a lot of people are very aggro about the fact that they have carved a safe space out for themselves prior to lemmy becoming popular recently. Tldr:

    Here's some of their demographic surveys.

    https://hexbear.net/post/2687582

    https://hexbear.net/post/3635039

  • Proton is dead (for me). Let's collect and discuss alternatives! ✊🛡
  • Truly unhinged that they decided to come out on this. Fellas, you are fucking Swiss why throw yourself under the bus for the US election

  • Arch-Based Distros Dominate the Linux Gaming Scene
  • Its honestly kinda weird, bazzite and nobara are fairly big. Must be a bug

    Edit: Looks like flatpack usage prevents them from monitoring OS, a lot of fedora stuff uses the flatpack for steam. Flatpack users are 5.73% of all linux users, most are on steamos.

    https://store.steampowered.com/hwsurvey/?platform=linux

  • Arch-Based Distros Dominate the Linux Gaming Scene
  • In my experience, Nobara requires way less fiddling and works out of the box. CachyOS was way more fiddly. I have newer hardware so things are a bit weird for me in general.

    Do wish Nobara had more maintainers. Cachyos isn't a whole lot better in this regard either, if you wanted something for gaming that has a lot of maintainers you should probably go for Bazzite. Personally, I had issues with Bazzite as well, Nobara seems to play nicest with new hardware out of the box.

  • Why are you on Lemmy?
  • less bootlicker trans community here than on reddit

  • Redact, but open source?

    So many people seem to recommend this app, but its obviously not open source and requires an email to signup, which seems unnecessary. Are there any good open source alternatives that are a one-stop-shop of sorts rather than a bunch of mottled scripts?

    https://redact.dev/

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    Firefox introduces AI as experimental feature
  • bergamot is ok but leaves a lot to be desired

  • Can you trust locally run LLMs?
  • yeah you could. though i dont see any evidence that the large open source llm programs like jan.ai or ollama are doing anything wrong with their program or files. chucking it in a sandbox would solve the problem for good though

  • Can you trust locally run LLMs?
  • you can check the process to see if its communicating at all. none of the big ones do. its possible someone could be fucking with the file though, before the safetensors format this was a big issue, and still sort of is afterwards. only DL from reputable sources

  • Firefox introduces AI as experimental feature
  • why a fucking chatbot? translate a page better for me you fucking losers, all the translation options suck for privacy outside of specifically trained local AIs. this is the BEST use case for a small local LLM yet mozilla with all its brains and resources couldnt rub two neurons together for this.

    or they could do character prediction on your typing to make typing faster. just some legit examples, why waste resources to build a chat ai into my browser when i can just open a website???

  • Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone marcie (she/her) @lemmy.ml
    Seeking moderators

    Requirements:

    • Must be trans

    • Must be a socialist

    • Must agree with the rules

    • Must agree that transmedicalism is bad

    • Must agree that chauvinism in all its forms is bad

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    Done with r/Privacy on Reddit
  • the other decent options are matrix and simplex chat, and mayyyybe session. matrix seems to have the most users and kick to it right now. out of those options. but yeah youre not gonna get the average tech illiterate person to get on a more complicated alternative to discord, essentially

  • Done with r/Privacy on Reddit
  • Only reason I'd recommend signal to anyone is that its one of the few encrypted apps that doesnt have awful onboarding. A boomer can figure it out.

  • Popular Female Skyrim Modder Has Abandoned Her Work Due to Daily Harrassment
  • the boob jiggle physics are genuinely ridiculous on this mod, i just watched the preview. gamers are brain broken

  • ALL Trans Health Care to be Eliminated in 47’s Administration. Lives Will be Lost.
  • Fingers crossed that RFK will transmit a worm to him or something by giving him raw milk and he just sits tweeting for the next 4 years

  • ALL Trans Health Care to be Eliminated in 47’s Administration. Lives Will be Lost.
  • Has he restated this recently? It seems the original comment was back in May, hopefully he just forgot.

  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • Good point, I originally made this as an image because someone requested that. Here's the text

    
    Important Online Safety PSA for American transgender people following the US election.
    
    Stop using insecure methods of communication.
    Stop using media without a discrete privacy policy.
    Stop posting identifying information about yourself.
    
    As we enter into a new government with a hypothetical Republican trifecta, we will likely see the trans community attacked by the state, and sites and services such as Reddit, Facebook, Discord, and TikTok are known to have a great deal of unencrypted information about their users, and have been known to cooperate with law enforcement.
    
    Instead of Discord, try Matrix. Here is a large trans chat on Matrix:
    
    https://matrix.to/#/#tracha:chapo.chat
    
    Instead of Reddit, try Lemmy. Here are some transgender groups on Lemmy:
    
    hexbear.net/c/traa (shortlink, redirect link on page)
    lemmy.ml/c/transgender
    lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/transgender
    
    Instead of Facebook or Instagram, try Pixelfed:
    
    pixelfed.org
    
    Instead of Twitter, try Mastodon. Here are some trans positive places on Mastodon:
    
    lgbtqia.space
    toots.matapocos.dog
    
    Many resources for more secure alternative apps can be found on privacyguides.org
    
  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • We can continue this conversation in DMs if you wish but your 'concerns' are not welcome here and contribute to an atmosphere of hostility towards trans communities on the fediverse.

  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • Are you cis? And yes, they are safe and have done more things for trans people than you will ever do, and this concern trolling is ridiculous.

  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • Are you yet another cis person coming into trans spaces to fearmonger about other trans spaces and why certain trans people are 'the good ones'? Just wondering, because that would definitely be transphobia.

    Rich of you fuckers to talk about brigading when you're deliberately sending other admins into this thread, likely from an admin chat. You don't even have pronouns displayed anywhere, which is the bare minimum for supporting trans people online and normalizing showing pronouns.

  • Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone marcie (she/her) @lemmy.ml
    Safety PSA, please spread.
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    Bleeding edge gaming distros with driver managers?

    Lately I've been suggesting Mint or PopOS for laymans looking to swap to linux, but do any of you know of any good gaming distros with a driver manager GUI built in ala Mint?

    I've tested most gaming distros with latest (nvidia) hardware and they do not run most major titles out of the box due to driver issues. If there were a gui for driver rollbacks while having great general performance, I could see it beating out Mint/PopOS for my recommendation. Being able to install .deb files is quite nice for laymans too, though I don't know of any other deb based OSes that run well out of the box.

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    Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone marcie (she/her) @lemmy.ml
    Are you cisgender? Gender Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say No and Maybe.

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3635039

    > Various thoughts: > > * Around 20 people weren't properly covered by the gender categories, obviously we're trying to be as inclusive as possible and a different approach will be tried next time > > * There were about 600 respondents, which gives us a accurate sampling of the active userbase. If you multiply any number by 3, you'll get a fairly accurate representation of the full userbase each week. This means there are around 800-900 people who don't identify fully as cis each week on this site. > > * Nearly 300 trans/gender diverse/questioning people unanimously agree that hexbear is an inclusive space > > * There was so much data on gender that I was really struggling to find a way to convey the data that wasnt a pie chart, graph, or an incomprehensible kalaeidoscope. If you have an idea on how to beautify the data, you can download the raw data here: https://pad.artemislena.eu/file/#/2/file/xzy4pck8on+oZp9yGRUIezR+/ - I further anonymized this data by removing time of response and any specific comments, I don't think it would be easy for anyone to figure out who is who. > > * There were a couple of text responses that really needed further elaboration, I noted hexbear's rules next to these comments > > * I'll probably be doing a demographics survey sometime in the future, including basic fairly anonymous stuff like "what region were you born in" "where do the languages you speak originate" "would you describe yourself as a POC" "what age range are you in". > > * The percentage of people answering they were cisgender increased by 8% than the previous survey. This could be for a myriad of reasons, such as cis people being afraid trans people will hunt them down in the public thread and assassinate them. Anonymity may have made them feel safer to respond. Regardless, way more people responded this time, which signifies that people felt safer responding to the cryptpad or it was easier to do. The leading question was a bit more inclusive than last time, but I think I'll include both questions (are you transgender / gender diverse and are you cisgender) to see how people respond. > > * We have a lot of people that aren't binary trans on this site. > > * Some of the questions were pretty funky and we got a lot of fuzzy responses on them as a result. In particular "After you realized you were trans/gender diverse, how long did it take for you to begin to act on it?" and "At what age did you begin transition?" caused a lot of friction, I think I will ask more vague questions in the future that lead to a path of more specific questions to capture better data, and to save people time. Questions like "Do you feel your gender transition had a defined starting point?" and some further ones. > > * Around 20 people each week on this site are cis she/hers, which is very low and roughly the same as last time. I feel like if hexbear ever starts hosting other federated stuff (like a federated tiktok or something) and can hook into it natively with lemmy, we'd see a better ratio. > > * I tried to be very sure any data with >2 people on it was clearly legible, I think some people might find it fun that there are others with their same fairly specific classifications per this survey lurking around on the site. > > * Overall I feel like the survey was a success despite some bumps. > > * You can find the other surveys/links here: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455 > > * I made these graphs on company time !bridget-pride-stay-mad > > !nerd

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    Are you cisgender? Gender Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say No and Maybe.

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3635039

    > Various thoughts: > > * Around 20 people weren't properly covered by the gender categories, obviously we're trying to be as inclusive as possible and a different approach will be tried next time > > * There were about 600 respondents, which gives us a accurate sampling of the active userbase. If you multiply any number by 3, you'll get a fairly accurate representation of the full userbase each week. This means there are around 800-900 people who don't identify fully as cis each week on this site. > > * Nearly 300 trans/gender diverse/questioning people unanimously agree that hexbear is an inclusive space > > * There was so much data on gender that I was really struggling to find a way to convey the data that wasnt a pie chart, graph, or an incomprehensible kalaeidoscope. If you have an idea on how to beautify the data, you can download the raw data here: https://pad.artemislena.eu/file/#/2/file/xzy4pck8on+oZp9yGRUIezR+/ - I further anonymized this data by removing time of response and any specific comments, I don't think it would be easy for anyone to figure out who is who. > > * There were a couple of text responses that really needed further elaboration, I noted hexbear's rules next to these comments > > * I'll probably be doing a demographics survey sometime in the future, including basic fairly anonymous stuff like "what region were you born in" "where do the languages you speak originate" "would you describe yourself as a POC" "what age range are you in". > > * The percentage of people answering they were cisgender increased by 8% than the previous survey. This could be for a myriad of reasons, such as cis people being afraid trans people will hunt them down in the public thread and assassinate them. Anonymity may have made them feel safer to respond. Regardless, way more people responded this time, which signifies that people felt safer responding to the cryptpad or it was easier to do. The leading question was a bit more inclusive than last time, but I think I'll include both questions (are you transgender / gender diverse and are you cisgender) to see how people respond. > > * We have a lot of people that aren't binary trans on this site. > > * Some of the questions were pretty funky and we got a lot of fuzzy responses on them as a result. In particular "After you realized you were trans/gender diverse, how long did it take for you to begin to act on it?" and "At what age did you begin transition?" caused a lot of friction, I think I will ask more vague questions in the future that lead to a path of more specific questions to capture better data, and to save people time. Questions like "Do you feel your gender transition had a defined starting point?" and some further ones. > > * Around 20 people each week on this site are cis she/hers, which is very low and roughly the same as last time. I feel like if hexbear ever starts hosting other federated stuff (like a federated tiktok or something) and can hook into it natively with lemmy, we'd see a better ratio. > > * I tried to be very sure any data with >2 people on it was clearly legible, I think some people might find it fun that there are others with their same fairly specific classifications per this survey lurking around on the site. > > * Overall I feel like the survey was a success despite some bumps. > > * You can find the other surveys/links here: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455 > > * I made these graphs on company time !bridget-pride-stay-mad > > !nerd

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    Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone marcie (she/her) @lemmy.ml
    Seeking donations for: a privacy focused mutual aid group for trans people

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3520611

    > You can find updates on this group on the link below. You should only trust information provided in this link and verified via our general Simplex Chat mentioned in the link below. We have affiliates that will be monitoring Hexbear and other trans groups to assist people. Our goal is to securely help transgender people in unusual circumstances with basic necessities that trans people need. Thank you. > > --- > > We suggest viewing this link via TOR or VPN, while this site (hosted by a trans person) mentions they do not log IP, you can never be 100% sure about hosting providers. All further updates will be only through this URL and our Simplex Chat. > > https://pad.artemislena.eu/code/#/2/code/view/OBjUSvB-We-z4zoAFcFp2qicIFWwExL81W9sdkwILBY/

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    Seeking donations for: a privacy focused mutual aid group for trans people

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3520611

    > You can find updates on this group on the link below. You should only trust information provided in this link and verified via our general Simplex Chat mentioned in the link below. We have affiliates that will be monitoring Hexbear and other trans groups to assist people. Our goal is to securely help transgender people in unusual circumstances with basic necessities that trans people need. Thank you. > > --- > > We suggest viewing this link via TOR or VPN, while this site (hosted by a trans person) mentions they do not log IP, you can never be 100% sure about hosting providers. All further updates will be only through this URL and our Simplex Chat. > > https://pad.artemislena.eu/code/#/2/code/view/OBjUSvB-We-z4zoAFcFp2qicIFWwExL81W9sdkwILBY/

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    Is Qubes any more efficient in resource usage than a typical VM?

    Privacy benefits aside, does qubes run better than a typical vm like virtualbox? I tend to fiddle with distros a lot and I feel qubes might be a good choice, though I'm wondering about how efficient it is

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    An admin of this instance, Nutomic, is a transphobe and has no right to be able to ban trans people from this community.

    I'm calling for https://lemmy.ml/u/Beaver@lemmy.ca, the most prolific user of the transgender comm here on lemmy.ml, to be immediately unbanned and nutomic to be removed as admin. It is good and correct to leak the DMs of transphobes.

    @dessalines@lemmy.ml @JoeBidet@lemmy.ml @cypherphunks

    edit: you can find more info from kristinas post here and beavers post here

    edit 2: proof, also beaver was banned from the whole instance modlong

    !

    edit 3: For trans people looking for a safer instance, I suggest Hexbear. They have a very active trans user base and are extremely supportive.

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    New rule: if you support transgender people or are trans, please change your username (if your instance allows it) to include your preferred pronouns

    If you have no preferred pronouns, just say (none) or something

    This will help make people feel more comfortable in this comm and has a side effect of showing you support trans people when making comments in other communities. It will also make reactionaries seethe and make it easier for mods to purge them, and make trans people feel safer all over the fediverse.

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    /c/transgender is looking for trans AND socialist moderators

    Hello, if you are transgender and socialist, please make an application below. We have lax requirements, I'm basically hoping to copy the success of Hexbear's trans community. Basic ideas of modding this space:

    • Rule with an iron fist. This is meant to be a safe place for transgender people. If someone is making that not happen / is fucking the vibes, they should be gone.

    • Purge transphobes on sight

    • No leftist infighting. Anarchists and communists can be friends

    • Suggest to cis and trans people that they change their username to include pronouns so no one misgenders them

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    Trans Help, DIY, PSAs, and Resources Thread

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455

    > Hey folks, hoping to have a semi-permanent thread for compiling resources to make finding really cool posts easier. Please suggest links and info in the comments below. I consider this necessary because there's a lot of things we would like pinned but obviously things get very crowded quickly. This thread will start sparse and I will edit new things in as people suggest them. > > --- > > # Trans Chemist Series > > These posts are done by a Hexbear user that I have verified as legit, offering unique information about trans DIY hrt, including quality sources, sanitation, storage recommendations. Verified by very expensive industrial chemistry equipment. > > * Hormone Vendor Estradiol Review and Qualitative Analysis > > * Thermal Stability of Estradiol Enanthate > > --- > > # DIY Electrolysis Series > > There posts are also done by a Hexbear user that is making an open source DIY electrolysis setup. > > * https://hexbear.net/post/2981402 > > * https://hexbear.net/post/1989510 > > --- > > # PSAs > > * CW: Transphobia. PSA for anyone who supports trans people: Begin using secure communications like Matrix now. Do NOT wait or delay. > > * PSA: nazis trying to poison trans women > > --- > > # Site Surveys > > * Are you transgender or gender diverse? Informal Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say Yes and Maybe. > > * Are you a cisgender heterosexual? Informal Survey Result: Supermajority of Hexbear users say NO and UNSURE. > > --- > > # Links > > * https://genderdysphoria.fyi (this link has allegedly been problematic deep into the past, but seems to have cleaned up a lot) > > * /r/transdiy wiki archive : https://archive.md/gDgj1 > > * /r/transwiki wiki archive : https://archive.md/OzyAk > > * trans australia : https://trans.au/ > > * haircuts for trans people : https://strandsfortrans.org/ > > * .Do It Yourself - Hormone Replacement Therapy - Very Basic Information Thread on DIY HRT. https://hexbear.net/post/8763710, guide to using Monero, a private cryptocurrency > > * https://www.transacademy.org/ - Trans Academy is a VRChat group that provides help/community for trans people. Among other things, they do free bi-weekly voice training seminars (in VRChat but also streamed on Discord and Twitch) and make-up tutorials (on Discord), and the classes include content for transmasc, enby, transfem peeps. VRChat is free and doesn't require VR (using the desktop or android app), but you can also participate in most of the class stuff through the Discord. > > --- > > # Webrings and Friends > > * Transmasculine Pride Ring

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    hexbear trans mega hits 3098 comments!

    i know people here have a sour taste over hexbear but im so happy to see trans spaces on the fediverse popping off, im so done with corporate social media and its great to see.

    love seeing hundreds of trans people vibing

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    Is there a rundown of privacy frontend instances? Which ones are the most private?

    I'm looking for ones that ideally don't log IP. Is there a guide somewhere that looks into each of these instances and whether or not they fulfill the privacy promise?

    I'm most interested in Invidious.

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    LGBT @lemmy.ml marcie (she/her) @lemmy.ml
    Are you a cisgender heterosexual? Informal Survey Result: Supermajority of Hexbear users say NO and UNSURE.

    https://hexbear.net/post/2687582

    I thought this poll and their previous trans poll were interesting. Blahaj also had a poll with about 40 responders.

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    Are you a cisgender heterosexual? Informal Survey Result: Supermajority of Hexbear users say NO and UNSURE.

    https://hexbear.net/post/2687582

    I thought this poll and their previous trans poll were interesting. Blahaj also had a poll with about 40 responders.

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    Are there any maps apps that rip data from Google Maps?

    I want to ungoogle myself as much as possible, but I've found that Google Maps is by far the best dataset for maps. I can search 'fast food' and it'll pull up anything related to that near me. I've tried things like OrganicMaps, and while it is blazing fast and very private in comparison to Google Maps, it unfortunately does not have the best information.

    Are there any apps that are kind of like a proxy/nitter like frontend for Google Maps and it respects privacy? Are there any ways to just straight up rip data from Google Maps and pull it into another app?

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