LadyButterfly she/her @ LadyButterfly @piefed.blahaj.zone

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Absolutely!

That's gorgeous 😍

Very noble

I really like this one

Yep that's why I put it in the title

Username checks out

Mate there's a tv version of the institute coming soon!

I thought of the bugs when I posted this. I remember on long journeys dad would have to pull over and wipe the windshield clear.

I've been reading a load of academic articles to do a factsheet for myself, how I've got all the articles together is pretty clever.

I've also had to do a load of pdfs for work and worked out how to do them right. I know that's a doddle to other people but it's pretty fucking creative for me!

Thanks mate you too ❤️

Well done for making that growth! And well done for acknowledging your marriage wasn't right, denial is so easy

Yep it started off as fun but slowly turned into a dumpster fire. Everyone projects something that they want to be on it, small issues become HUGE and there's so much negative shit

Yep it got me too. Done it more than I want to admit to...

Agree

Hard agree

I'd never heard of them, I just had a look and screenshotted loads! I really like their work think this one is my favourite

Yes that's what I thought, it comes back to the 1990s studies. I'm a dv outreach worker, there's not much research in PPDA.

1st source - talking about studies from the 90s that are now horribly out of date (eg don't take into account changes in recruitment) and have massive methodological flaws (eg not considering the context of coercive control). 2nd link- isn't a study, it's an essay, and it says itself it's anywhere between 4.8 to 40%

I'm not disputing there's likely more in police. I'd also expect there to be more in other jobs with power, control and access to vulnerable people including medicine, security guards, teaching etc.

Sounds good I'll join you

Do you have a source for saying police have high rates of DA perps?

I used to LOVE celeb gossip when I was younger, I'd buy gossip magazines every week and look it up online. I'd love to say I'd realised it was exploitative and stopped doing it... but I didn't. I just lost interest