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Why dont more people live in smaller communities , appart from economic opportunity (WFH is making it possible if not prefferable too)
  • I live in New York City and have no desire to move to the suburbs or countryside. It's great here.

    • I can walk to most of my needs. Several grocery stores, pharmacies, a big park, bars, restaurants. I don't need a car.
    • there's a thriving music scene. I can go see live stuff of many genres every night if I want
    • a deep dating pool. Lots of people. Lots of queer people too, if that's your jam.
    • I like there being people around. The empty streets of the suburbs feel spooky and hostile to me.
    • more people means it's easier to get group activities going. Join a soccer team. Brass band. Bird watching group. Knitting community. There's everything. Usually more than one, in case a particular group isn't your vibe.
    • stuff is open later.

    Some of the things people imagine about cities aren't really true

    • it's not constant noise
    • I typically can't hear my neighbors
    • people don't typically interact with you on the street, but if you need help someone will usually step up
    • it's not shoulder to shoulder constantly. People seem to imagine it's always times Square on NYE, but it's just not.

    While you're not unseen like you might be in the countryside, no one really cares that they do see you.

    Some people want "more space" but I don't really know what for. A one bedroom apartment is fine for me. What would I do with more rooms?

    If I had kids, I wouldn't want to put them in the suburban hell cage like I had. Nothing to do. Can't get anywhere on your own. Don't like the few dozen kids in your school? Well that's your whole pool of friendship options. I was always so jealous of the kids I knew that lived in the city. They could just get on the train and go to the beach, or go skating, or go to a punk show, or whatever. I had to beg my parents to drive me anywhere interesting, and usually they didn't want to.

  • How do you feel when someone apologises too much?
  • It's kind of annoying and distracting. It makes me think they have some emotional damage (don't we all?) and then I start wondering what else is going to break under stress.

    A sincere apology and owning fault is a power move. Apologizing four times because the chair made a weird sound when you adjusted it makes you look sad and impotent.

  • When you send your son to school in a blue state
  • Does instagram really let the hateposts like the top one fly?

    Can we find the person who posted it and beat the shit out of them? I know, I know, I'm just doing internet tough guy right now, but I really am sick of all these hateful assholes making the world worse. They post who they are under their real name! Burn their house down!

  • Trump makes history by pardoning a corporation
  • Corporations, by contrast, cannot go to jail and or be physically executed

    Ok so technically we can't physically execute a corporation, but we could get pretty close if we rounded up the board and c-suite.

  • US prosecutors to seek death penalty for Luigi Mangione
  • I kind of hope that will have the bonus effect of making the ownership class ease up on return-to-office. Sure, have your executive meeting in-person. Oh shit, someone flew a drone in and it exploded, shooting nails everywhere and killing half the c-suite? Shit. Anyway. We'll be working from home until at least they clear the blood out of the carpets.

    (Though realistically, they'd make workers go in physically while being remote themselves. But maybe someone will bomb their house. No mercy for the ultra-rich.)

  • democrats got this
  • I want republicans dead. That's not really practical but that's what I want. Every republican up against the wall. The big players can get a guillotine.

    More practically? Probably impeachment proceedings, noncompliance, fillibuster, malicious compliance, push hard to the left and sell people on a future that's not climate collapse and wage slavery.

  • democrats got this
  • Let them enforce their decision, then.

    Look, I don't really want a civil war or constitutional crisis, but under no circumstances should we have let the republicans proceed as they have.

  • democrats got this
  • Calling him a traitor on the campaign trail isn't the same as actually enforcing the law, at gunpoint if need be. Laws don't matter if they're not enforced. They should be physically removing the republicans from office.

  • democrats got this
  • I would have liked them to push on how Trump and a bunch of other republicans are not eligible for office because of the insurrection. Go for blood. Refuse to acknowledge that that these people hold office.

    No person shall be a Senator or Representative in Congress, or elector of President and Vice-President, or hold any office, civil or military, under the United States, or under any State, who, having previously taken an oath, as a member of Congress, or as an officer of the United States, or as a member of any State legislature, or as an executive or judicial officer of any State, to support the Constitution of the United States, shall have engaged in insurrection or rebellion against the same, or given aid or comfort to the enemies thereof. But Congress may by a vote of two-thirds of each House, remove such disability.

  • As a library, we're not here to judge, we're here to help
  • You're probably not telling the total truth, but maybe consider that one person being unpleasant 30 years ago isn't a good reason to abandon an entire form of media for your entire life. Let it go. The librarian is probably dead by now, and they don't have to matter to you anymore.

  • As a library, we're not here to judge, we're here to help
  • I say this all the time! I use it to try to discredit conservatives when they make up reasons why we can't have good things. Like, look, you love the library, and you know conservatives would make up all sorts of reasons why it couldn't ever work. When they're going on about how free buses (or whatever) couldn't work, it's the same

  • Devils Panties 03/31/2025
  • We really should be organizing to fight the right wing, because they're pretty unified.

    It does feel like unrest is coming. I don't want to live in a world with car bombs in the US, but I do want all the republicans dead, so.

  • Who's playing in the .32 tournament?

    Not sure if this community is dead, but here we are!

    I kind of stopped playing new versions around .28 because I really disliked the opportunity attacks mechanism, but I thought I'd give .32 a try. The new shapeshifter things look cool, but in fussing with it a bit it's harder than I expected.

    But now the tournament is live! Who's playing?

    https://crawl.develz.org/tournament/0.32/

    I currently have one win with ye olde MiBe. Got lucky with good armor early on, and then cruised to a 3 rune (shoals + snake + vaults) win.

    There was one dicey moment in the lungs where I went around the corner to reveal 4 orbs of fire, some draconians, and a lightning golem all waiting for me. Hasted + Fog'd my way the hell out there.

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    how do people feel about spears?

    I tried it a bit with my reaper in pve and it seemed okay, but I wasn't doing anything challenging that really put it to the test. I haven't tried the others classes yet.

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    Polyamory & Open Relationships @kbin.run jjjalljs @ttrpg.network
    How are your metamor relationships?

    Currently, I'm polite to friendly with all of them. No outstanding conflicts. It's sometimes literal kitchen table poly with one, and the others I only see at like parties and such.

    Some years ago I had two partners that absolutely did not get along with each other, and that was rough. Recently I was able to do a dinner with 3 partners and everyone had a good time.

    I try not to make a big deal about folks meeting. I try to model after meeting your friend's friends.

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    Polyamory & Open Relationships @kbin.run jjjalljs @ttrpg.network
    How do you find other poly people?

    For me there's a bit of a network effect where the polycule sprawls out into the distance. Partners have partners who have partners.

    But for disconnected folks, it's mostly been tinder (yuck), and a local meetup.

    (Also this might be the first post? That or nothing federated yet)

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    LFG @ttrpg.network jjjalljs @ttrpg.network
    [Online][Fate][UTC-5] Looking for a Thursday Evening Game

    I'm looking for players for a weekly game of Fate. I'm thinking something like a mix of Shadowrun and World of Darkness, where the players are vigilantes looking to make the world better. It would start (and maybe stay) at the street level, rather than global or cosmic.

    I've been playing and running games for 20+ years.

    LGBT friendly. New players okay. Unreliable players less so.

    Message me if you're interested. Include a blurb about yourself, your experience with games, with fate specifically, and a joke of your choosing.

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    What's up with memes suffixed with "rule"?

    Like I saw one that was titled "I wonder why rule" and had a picture about overpaid CEOs or something.

    Why "rule"? What's the origin of this format?

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