because of the laws and privacy, mostly. i guess i need to rephrase myself: server should not be based in USA, that is. i just feel safer this way :D hope i word it fine...

thank you for kind words T_T

Does your partner have a problem with you not working?

no, not at all. they're also autistic, and they know how it feels. so it's all kinda... my projections, mostly. i know i'm not a burden for them, but i still feel like it.

thank you for sharing, it gives me hope!

I don’t know whether you’re dealing with other disability besides autism

also ADHD and depression. in times when my meds were more helpful i felt like i'm ready to start? but it was like... 3 years ago? since then, many bad things happened, and i didn't really feel good all these years. :(

oh thank god. finally, safe community. based af.