dullbananas (Joseph Silva) @ dullbananas @lemmy.ca

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Some of the listed things mean that Catholics might put more effort into finding someone, compared to secular dating. Also, people seem to see insanity in how Catholic dating connects to marriage, but I don't know exactly how that's perceived. I might not be familiar enough with other dating cultures to know what is relevant.

I defined the first in another comment.

Incel-style pessimistic desperation: persistently sad because no girlfriend; horny; wants an easy short path to having girlfriend; making the other person happier is probably not part of why they start to want romance

I didn't limit to only what's specific to Catholics. Also, I've heard that Mormons think it's a big deal to still not be married at a certain age because it affect which level of Heaven you enter.

• marriage is awesome enough to warrant active effort in dating if one is called to marriage, but not at all costs
• standards can be good, even if it means staying single
• no shame or moral inferiority in being single, regardless of age
• marriage almost always should be with another catholic
• no premarital sex or cohabitation
• dating is for finding future spouse, but there's not too much rush in determining whether or not someone is that future spouse
• relatively wide variety in how long a couple dates before deciding to marry
• normal to date in high school, but some people are against it, and some actively encourage it

Edit: i forgot to mention agape

One comment said "You could think of it as protecting personal data which could translate to protecting his family's personal data."

Gnu manifesto + linux

it’s something that should be investigated

I agree

Pausing fluoridation while this happens would seem sensible.

Why

https://lemmy.ca/post/2409336

He might have done the coolest secular stuff ever. I don't know whether or not he envisioned something that would be completely good in practice, and I disagree with some things like what he said about free will, but I wish he influenced a lot more people, and the venus project is worth trying. I actually felt disappointed when I learned that Venus Snoasis was an april fools joke.

Now, go forth and sing the free software song

The important thing is people discovering GNU's libre software philosophy.

That page only talks about sexual relations

Yoe gas literally contains cancer cells

Ephesians 5:25 is underrated

"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her"

Reminds me of when I was a 6 year old in first grade and some other kids told me that a place under a table was only for ages 7 and up so I didn't belong there

I'm not okay. My encounter with yoe gave me extreme emotional trauma.

if anyone who “preaches hate for America” will face deportation, then trump will face deportation

Subconscious mind trolled me indeed

Baptism removed your original calculus

Software engineering degree is bloated