I completely understand what your talking about. I have NPD/HPD myself and it's never sat right with me that people who advocate for better understanding of mental health completely change when it comes to things that aren't seen as something to be pitied like autism.
You also see it with things like schizophrenia or substance abuse.
Thank you for your understanding.
"teached by their parents."
What parents are teaching there kids to send dickpics and catcall?
"Way to humble brag /s"
Well, I guess looking back they weren't wrong, lol. Except on the 'MILF' thing. Idk how a 17-to-20 year old girl could be a mother. Unless I was Mexican.
"In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat."
Teenagers are just great at sex crimes in general, aren't they.
I understand. I get stressed so easily and it's just so much to put up with. I just have a million thoughts at once sometimes and it's all so much on my back.
Your right. This was done by a pre teen but still what is it with teenage boys and sexual harassment? I remember as a high school student aged 17-20 a lot of the younger students would fetishize the idea of doing it with an older woman so I received a lot of unwanted attention. I asked out my literal 12-to-15 year olds. I got unsolicited dickpics through my Snapchat. I was given lewd comments/cat calls all the time. I was told I was a "baddie", "Thicc" and a "MIFT". I got my butt slapped, I had videos and pictures took of me without my consent and I was too afraid to do anything about it because I thought people would think I was being inappropriate or provoking them in some way.
You could do what I plan on doing which is getting married to a rich guy and becoming a house wife.
Funny you say that. From earlier in this thread,
"Back when I was 18 I wanted nothing more then to be a nurse."
"They also did a psychological evaluation on me and it turns out I was a “deviant sociopath” "
I feel you. I have a lot of problems with my mental health as well. I hate the person I am. It's like why can't I just be normal? I have two major personality disorders as well as ADHD and dyslexia.
I hate how fucking stupid I am. I am an actual mentally removed woman with literally no future. I have no qualifications so the only jobs I can get are shitty mcjobs for teens. It brings me so much shame. I deserve to be intelligent and have more possibilities. I see other people who are rich and famous and it makes me so mad because I don't understand why they get all the luck and I don't. I put in so much effort and all I get is some crap job at Burger King and a even crappier car.
I hear the Netherlands is a hotspot for prostitution. Kinda like the Theiland of Europe.
I wanted to be a programmer a few years ago but I just couldn't put my head around it. Considering AI is becoming a thing I made the right call there.
I've never understood our societies obsession with when men lose their virginity. You see it in media all the time like in 'The 42 year Old Virgin' and 'Last American Virgin'. It seems to be a bigger thing with men then women. Can any men here confirm?
Why does it matter when someone loses their virginity? If you ask me it's no one's business to when someone loses their v-card. People should lose it when they feel comfortable to. I hate our societies insistence that men lose it before the age of 18. Like if your an adult virgin our society sees it as a personal failing that makes you a loser. I never understood it myself. It's frankly ridiculous.
How did I come across as "ignorant" Take this from someone who has been to Guatemala. Anyone who knows anything about Guatemala would say what I said.
"The countryside is beautiful and the people are descended from one of humanity’s major civilizations, the Mayans."
You can cherry pick nice places from anywhere. Places like Mexico, Baltimore, South Africa, Brazil, Detroit and Guatemala have have some nice places here and there but let's be honest like most of South America it's a poverty filled shithole and most Guatemalans/South Americans would even agree with me on that.
I didn't establish a hierarchy of nationalities. It's like I'm saying it's bad to be Irish or Lithuanian in a moral sense I'm saying it's bad from the perspective of a Irish or Lithuanian person. Both Ireland and Lithuania are pretty shit tier countries and are very miserable places to live.
Your not. A lot of people think I'm autistic because of the way I speak but in reality I just have an intellectual disability:(
Why are Americans so obsessed with Ireland? They are always so desperate to prove that they are Irish for some reason. Like, out of all the nationalities you could claim to be why "Irish"? That's like me trying to say that I'm Guatemalan or Lithuanian. Sad thing to be, nonsensical thing to want to be. If you tried to convince me that you were French or Spanish that would make sense you know but Irish? Not even the Irish want to be Irish.
Back when I was 16 my teacher held me after class and told me that me wearing yoga pants and skinny jeans was a "distraction" his words not mine. To this day this story is an odd source of pride for me. To be fair I couldn't blame him.
. The race of a voice actor doesn't matter
. It is possible to wear yoga pants because there comfy
. You don't need to shower everyday
. It is possible to crossdress/be gender non-conforming without being trans
. Monty Python is very overrated
Do you ever think that maybe a diagnosis you received may have come back to bite you?
For the past few years I have lived without an address and until recently a consistent form of income. Ask Me Anything
For me it was the fact that I would always be slower than everyone else and I would have to put in twice the effort.
I've been looking into daddy issues recently and I'm honestly starting to believe I have some of the symptoms.
. Fear of abandonment . Unhealthy attachment patterns . Low self-esteem . Trust issues . Jealousy . Constantly needing reassurance
I think I have 1, 2, 4, 5 and 6. I've been in a handful of relationships in my life and there always super stressful because there's always so much competition and I just want to be there number 1 girl and I don't know why but I get really obsessed with people. I've spoken about this before on this sub but if I like someone then it's like they become my main interest above all else. It's also hard for me to trust other people even I know them really well. Obviously, I get jealous really easily. I hate the thought of someone else being better then me at something and taking my lime light. I put so much effort into the way I look and getting others to like me and I feel like I deserve it.
My relationship with my parents isn't that good. I never had a 'daddys little princess' relationship with my dad growing up. I was always overshadowed by my siblings and I was never good enough for my mom or dad plus he was so violent. He got angry really easily especially when he had been drinking. He would slap us, beat us with belts and throttle us. It wasn't just that either he was always insulting us. He had no problems with using swear words around us and describing us as such and not in a fun or playful way. He singled me out of because I could never meet his standards, he call me stupid, ret@rded, lazy ect, ect,
I never had a normal father/daughter relationship growing but I think deep down I always wanted one. My number one fantasy is being pampered and taken care of by a rich man. I love the thought of being so loved by someone they go out of there way just to keep me around unconditionally like a father would do to his children. I want the father I never had.
I across this interesting page on Wikipedia called "Characters With Narcissistic Personality Disorder" and I was very surprised by the characters that will included. I never thought of Patrick Bateman or Bender as having NPD before. There are some obvious ones like the Wicked Witch from Snow White and Gaston from Beauty And The Beast but are there any others.
I'm sick of hearing the whining of "gifted" children. Like, why are they even "gifted" to begin with? What... they remember the names of shapes and count well and we're supposed to believe they're the second coming of Albert Einstein?
Can imagine the type of person this could rest? Imagine growing up and being told your special and better then the other kids when all they can do is learn faster than everyone else. There just lucky, that's what gets me. It's like being praised for being born rich. It's like if we lived in a world where anyone was in a wheelchair and they could walk.
As someone with interactual disabilities I hate hearing them complain. Like really? you you were praised growing up and did well academically? Aww, I cry for you😥
I love the thought of people thinking of me obsessively and wanting to be just like me.
