"If both people are onboard, its okay I guess. However, I imagine someone that is rich and okay taking on a partner with no love in relationship is going to have a lot of choices of people to pick from for the position of “stay at home partner”.
Who says there won't be love? We can still love each other. He would love me and give me what he has to give and I will love him and give him and give him what I have to give. I'm sure there's lots of competition. I never said there wasn't. I just need to be the best somehow.
"I'm guessing that you’d have to bring a lot to the table to win out over your competition."
Well, that's subjective. It would be up to person to decide if I'm the one.
"If I were not the rich one, I’d also be worried about the end-game."
I don't just want money. A nice ass and cute face would also be nice.
"A soon as whatever got me the rich partner fades, what would prevent my rich partner from dumping me and trading up to someone that has what I had years prior?"
This could happen in any relationship. The only difference is that you wouldn't have benefited as much as you would have with the rich man.
"The deep loving relationship is what keeps partners together long after looks, charisma, and cognition fade with the passing years and advanced aging."
Incredibly vague concepts. Things like "charisma" and "looks" are nice but I also care about the material and literal in a relationship.
"Getting old sucks for everyone and there’s nothing we can do to escape it. Getting old alone without my loving partner sounds like hell."
You know what else sounds like hell? All of those things but in a tin house being paid for by the Burger King paycheck.
I completely understand what your talking about. I have NPD/HPD myself and it's never sat right with me that people who advocate for better understanding of mental health completely change when it comes to things that aren't seen as something to be pitied like autism.
You also see it with things like schizophrenia or substance abuse.
Well, I guess looking back they weren't wrong, lol. Except on the 'MILF' thing. Idk how a 17-to-20 year old girl could be a mother. Unless I was Mexican.
"In all seriousness, that must have been super uncomfortable. Its crazy how social pressures inform our perspective. I had the same thing happen to me, but I was raised as a dude. I was ecstatic that girls were into me, and was happy for the attention. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how absolutely fucked it was that girls waaaay older than me were sending me nudes, and girls younger than me who didn’t even know my name yet were doing the same. Somehow I never sent a single pic, unless it was my cat. I loved my cat."
Teenagers are just great at sex crimes in general, aren't they.
I understand. I get stressed so easily and it's just so much to put up with. I just have a million thoughts at once sometimes and it's all so much on my back.
Your right. This was done by a pre teen but still what is it with teenage boys and sexual harassment? I remember as a high school student aged 17-20 a lot of the younger students would fetishize the idea of doing it with an older woman so I received a lot of unwanted attention. I asked out my literal 12-to-15 year olds. I got unsolicited dickpics through my Snapchat. I was given lewd comments/cat calls all the time. I was told I was a "baddie", "Thicc" and a "MIFT". I got my butt slapped, I had videos and pictures took of me without my consent and I was too afraid to do anything about it because I thought people would think I was being inappropriate or provoking them in some way.
I feel you. I have a lot of problems with my mental health as well. I hate the person I am. It's like why can't I just be normal? I have two major personality disorders as well as ADHD and dyslexia.
I hate how fucking stupid I am. I am an actual mentally removed woman with literally no future. I have no qualifications so the only jobs I can get are shitty mcjobs for teens. It brings me so much shame. I deserve to be intelligent and have more possibilities. I see other people who are rich and famous and it makes me so mad because I don't understand why they get all the luck and I don't. I put in so much effort and all I get is some crap job at Burger King and a even crappier car.
Why would I enjoy that?