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What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? June 17
  • Working my way through Master and Commander again. I'm up to Truelove.

  • What book(s) are you currently reading or listening? June 17
  • Oh, you're gonna have a good time.

    It's not flawless, (what is, after all) but it's quite good.

  • US Military never really trained for these types of dog and pony shows
  • More or less. No bonus points for me, I guess.

  • US Military never really trained for these types of dog and pony shows
  • You need some kind of cue to keep in step. If you can see the other guys feet, that helps, but often tinted you can't. The sound of yourself matching helps, but without some occasional cadence, or other governing factor, the speed of the match tends to change in a collective sort of way. My BMT platoon would get faster as we marched, unless the DI shouted at us occasionally.

  • US Military never really trained for these types of dog and pony shows
  • Realistically, by way of being the political equivalent of a fleet-in-being.

    Mostly, though, by way of ducking up anyone who looks like challenging our putative superiority.

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • Some of this makes a bit of sense, but it still leans heavily on perception by others, rather than respecting what people know about themselves. This does not seem to be what many transgender persons want.

    I'll think about it.

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • using ciswomen and transwomen makes you sound like a TERF.

    What would be a correct way to distinguish between the two?

    • "Woman" seems like it works refer to both, to be used in the majority of cases when the distinction is irrelevant.

    • I don't want to say "natural" women, or "real" women, as even someone as thick as me can see that's insulting.

    • It seems that using the prefix for both makes them equal.

    What do you think world be more appropriate?

    it’s impossible for Black people to not pass as Black because it’s been proven they experience racism based on an immutable characteristic.

    But they would suggest that as soon as we discover a way to change that characteristic, transrace world be valid.

    Further, while gender identity may not be based on appearance, the way one is treated is very much based on appearance. If I look male, I get treated as male. If I look female, I get treated as female. If I look like one, but insist I am the other, people tend to have disagreements between their deliberate and automatic behaviors. (Well, the same people do, anyway.)

    I can't think of a good way to prove it, but I am legitimately curious about this topic. I'm never happy with the answer "because this one is right, and that one is wrong." There needs to be reasons why.

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • maybe stop comparing race and gender then.

    Isn't the entire premise of the post that someone is seeing parallels here, and would like to understand why the similarities are not meaningful? As I said, I agree that transracial people are being silly, but I haven't seen an argument here that can't be used against transgender people.

    trans women only pass because we’re women.

    But there are plenty of transwomen who don't "pass" despite being women. But they should still be treated as women. Hell, there have been at least a few reports of ciswomen who couldn't pass as women, at least to sufficiently assholish observers. On that basis, I don't think we can use "passing" as a factor to determine people's identity.

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • I'm advised that there is no scientific or genetic basis for race. I'm a little unclear on how "ethnicity" is different from "race."

    All of them seem to be social constructs.

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • So, as a white person, I cannot pass as black, so I can never expect people to treat me like I'm black?

    Don't get me wrong, I think the idea is silly, but all the arguments I've seen in this thread are a word-swap away from being a bad argument against transgender people.

    What's the essential difference?

  • What's the best way to respond to someone who says "transracial is just as valid as transgender"? (Transracial referring to people who identify as another race like Rachel Dolezal)
  • Problem is that “race” isn’t just cultural. How you will be treated definitely depends on how other people perceive your “race” and subsequently it will shape your life reality

    But surely how you will be treated definitely depends on how other people perceive your “gender” and subsequently it will shape your life reality?

    Everything you described up there sounds exactly like "cultural."

  • Iranian regime muzzles media with grim death penalty warning
  • Information flow can never go backwards. There's plenty of examples of reporters or even social media compromising military operations. In at least a few cases, it has lead to the destruction of military assets. Once broadcast, the damage is done.

    Trying to force reporters to think hard about what they are broadcasting is a good thing, from the point of view of national defence.

  • Iranian regime muzzles media with grim death penalty warning
  • Is it normal to allow people to send military information to your enemy?

    I'm not a huge fan of either of the two belligerent, but this is not exactly an unreasonable position to take. And they are at least putting reporters on notice.

  • Curvy stick
  • Wood.

  • When were you wrong about something?
  • I picked it up from an episode of Deep Space Nine. Good times.

  • Israel strikes Tehran nuclear sites in operation 'Rising Lion' - bombing expected to last DAYS
  • The US is obligated by law,

    Yea, that's a law we passed, right? One which we could repeal, too?

  • When were you wrong about something?
  • I thought I was wrong, once. But I was mistaken.

  • Israel strikes Tehran nuclear sites in operation 'Rising Lion' - bombing expected to last DAYS
  • Are they running out of people to murder in Gaza? Or do they just need someone to fight back, so they can look oppressed?

  • Troops and marines deeply troubled by LA deployment: ‘Morale is not great’
  • There was the whole thing in Guantanamo Bay. And the awful treatment of civilians in Afghanistan. And in Iraq. And we can't forget the Vietnam war.

    I think the guy you're talking to is a duck, but he's not all wrong.

  • Troops and marines deeply troubled by LA deployment: ‘Morale is not great’
  • Just because Trump isn't performing his duty doesn't mean that he doesn't have a duty.

  • Naked Prisoners

    Is there an easier way to get clothing for a prisoner than drafting a pawn and having them strip in the cell before walking naked back to the cloths storage?

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    Fairborn Community Garden

    Has anyone here participated in the Fairborn Community Gardens in the past? I'm trying to get an idea of what the "normal" approach is, and what the general expectations are.

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    Autoplay Videos

    New to this whole Lemmy platform, but I'm liking it.

    One problem I'm having is auto-play videos when I open some discussions. Not in the comments, but the post itself starts playing.

    I'll skip my usual rant about what I think should be done to whoever decided to make that a feature, and just ask how to turn it off. I have "auto expand media" unchecked in my lemmy settings.

    I appreciate any advice.

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    SaltSong SaltSong @startrek.website
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