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what’s the weirdest word in your language?
  • awesome to see more people speaking norwegian, im trying to learn it a little because my mom has some norwegian ancestry :)

  • what’s the weirdest word in your language?
  • what language is that? that’s so interesting that there’s some very specific words out there that can’t be explained in other languages.

  • what’s the weirdest word in your language?
  • i always think of avocados when i see it

  • are terfs actual feminists or do most transphobic women just call themselves that?
  • agreed. saw a woman on twitter giving usernames of trans ppl so her fanbase could harass them.

  • Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses?
  • apparently they think she’s pretty and give her stuff

  • did anyone else go through a gay scenecore phase?
  • “The scene subculture is a youth subculture that emerged during the early 2000s in the United States from the pre-existing emo subculture. The subculture became popular with adolescents from the mid 2000s to the early 2010s. Members of the scene subculture are referred to as scene kids, trendies, or scenesters. Scene fashion consists of skinny jeans, bright-colored clothing, a signature hairstyle consisting of straight, flat hair with long fringes covering the forehead, and bright-colored hair dye. Music genres associated with the scene subculture include metalcore, crunkcore, deathcore, electronic music, and pop punk.”

  • Am I a bad friend/rude for not engaging with my friends and giving one-word responses?
  • you don’t type like a 50 year old, you type like someone who’s not interested in having a conversation

  • did anyone else go through a gay scenecore phase?

    i’m bi, but i remember when i was a younger teen, i was OBSESSED with men but also the scenecore aesthetic? i wanted to be scene but I didn’t have money/a gift card to buy the clothes. anyway, i liked the aesthetic and music but wasn’t one myself

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    is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his?
  • someone irl said it would mean my nose is big (I don’t think it is)

  • is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his?
  • he made a joke, i was just curious what it meant as i found it funny :3

  • is it a good thing if someone says my nose looks like his?

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    my friend and I were watching american dad and he said my nose looks like his

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    just wanted to bring this up, what is with the influx of “LGB” people spreading the most vile, hateful transphobic and discriminatory crap?
  • probably a troll that I saw, twitter bio that said “she/her | proud terf | 18”

    and she was also dropping trans peoples’ usernames for people to harass said users?

  • just wanted to bring this up, what is with the influx of “LGB” people spreading the most vile, hateful transphobic and discriminatory crap?
  • I think a great deal of those people are straight or internalized homophobia + transphobia

  • old texts i found from when i came out to my dad
  • of course 💕 next should i post coming out to my mom??

  • just wanted to bring this up, what is with the influx of “LGB” people spreading the most vile, hateful transphobic and discriminatory crap?

    idk if they’re part of the community or saying this for attention/an excuse, plus ik not everyone is like this, but the people who are make me sick.

    i have noticed an influx of highly religious internet users claiming to be bisexual with pride flags in their bio yet saying the most bigoted, vile crap. how sick do you have to be to do that?

    thinking minorities are weird and saying they deserve death while playing the minority card??

    i don’t care if you’re a queer person who says shit like “lgbt lives matter!! im queer and i hate when people are homophobic!! homophobia ends now” stop trying to make yourself look good.

    also some of these people are women who are “anti-feminist” and also say “women just want something to complain about 🥱” respectfully shut up!!

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    would anyone like to be a mod and join Cara’s Crew? 🤑

    (i go by cara or rico)

    if anyone would like to have some sort of leadership and join the crew in kindness, you have a chance to reply to this :3

    responsibilities:

    post things to keep the community active

    as does every poster.

    delete negativity and hatred

    this is a sub for kindness

    you can clean up the community when needed

    remove comments containing spam or trolling if severe and harmful, and ban these users if necessary.

    be in charge of things related to your language

    this community is mostly english-speaking but allows users who speak any language. if you speak a language and would like to moderate for people who speak a language, you very well can. (ex: as a portuguese speaker, i can delete spam and trolling from the portuguese language).

    mod rico/cara (she/him) 🤑

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    what was/would be the reaction of the first person you came out to as trans?
  • that’s so weird :( were they a gay man/straight woman?

  • old texts i found from when i came out to my dad

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/22063299

    > > ! > > ! > > “dad > > do you remember what i said about using the name ‘cara’ with me? > > i wasn’t joking > > what do you mean son > > well > > i’ve been having dysphoria for a while > > so i want to try to present as a girl 😅 > > if it’s okay with you, i think im trans > > oh > > ok 👍 > > i think it’ll take me some time to get used to it but if you want to be a girl and it’ll make you happier then i don’t have any problem with that > > good luck with everything my daughter ❤️“

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    old texts i found from when i came out to my dad
  • “dad

    do you remember what i said about using the name ‘cara’ with me?

    i wasn’t joking

    what do you mean son

    well

    i’ve been having dysphoria for a while

    so i want to try to present as a girl 😅

    if it’s okay with you, i think im trans

    oh

    ok 👍

    i think it’ll take me some time to get used to it but if you want to be a girl and it’ll make you happier then i don’t have any problem with that

    good luck with everything my daughter ❤️“

  • old texts i found from when i came out to my dad

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    “dad

    do you remember what i said about using the name ‘cara’ with me?

    i wasn’t joking

    what do you mean son

    well

    i’ve been having dysphoria for a while

    so i want to try to present as a girl 😅

    if it’s okay with you, i think im trans

    oh

    ok 👍

    i think it’ll take me some time to get used to it but if you want to be a girl and it’ll make you happier then i don’t have any problem with that

    good luck with everything my daughter ❤️“

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    se vocês virem uma pessoa intimidada ou sem amigos, vocês deveriam ajudar ela. vocês poderiam mudar uma vida.

    (parece que este é o primeiro post)

    odeio quando as pessoas são hostis com alguém só pq ele é “esquisito”, neurodivergente, ruim em esportes, etc.

    se uma pessoa é legal além de traços como esses, então ela pode ser uma amiga incrível. como um homem com tdah, posso dizer que pessoas “esquisitas” usualmente são ótimas amigas (excluindo pessoas que são esquisitas como pervertidos)

    além disso, se sentindo solitário é uma causa de depressão ou pode piorar ela. pessoas podem se sentir como ninguém entende elas, como ninguém quer ajudar elas. se uma pessoa é intimidada, isso também pode ser uma causa.

    ser amável pode mudar saúde mental, vidas, e as vezes, salvar vidas!!

    espalhem mais bondade 🌟

    • rico 🤑
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    what was/would be the reaction of the first person you came out to as trans?

    i was transfem as a high schooler, it took a while for my parents to get used to, but i remember my dad was literally like: “ok 👍”

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    be kind to the “weird” people!!

    and i don’t mean weirdos as in creeps who objectify people for example, i mean those people who kind of stand out.

    most of the time, the bullied people tend to be really nice. a lot of them happen to be autistic, i’ve noticed, as someone with autism + adhd. (obviously that’s not always the case)

    🌟 be kind 🌟

    • rico 🤑
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    I hate when people are assholes and think it has something to do with appearance

    there was this one person i saw who was extremely bigoted. hated people who weren’t christian, straight americans while preaching acceptance and claiming “she just knew the truth”.

    she said that she had no friends. no guy ever liked her back when she liked them. no guy ever asked her out, hardly any friends.

    apparently she thought it was because she was “ugly and black”. ooorr maybe because you’re not really a good person.

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    it makes me sad that some neurodivergent people i know bully other neurodivergent people and call them “the weird kids”.

    these people i know complain that they barely have any friends and that they’re considered “the weird kids” yet bully other neurodivergent people for that reason.

    as someone with autism + adhd, this just makes me so sad.

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    [TOMT]”disney with buckteeth” movie?

    the movie was from the 2010s or earlier, the movie also seemed to parody/feature characters such as snow white

    one of the characters had prominent front teeth.

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    American Dad @lemmy.world rico @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    why is roger’s yearbook quote/name the only one in english?

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    for the queer people who experience attraction, when was your “gay awakening”?

    i honestly think mine was sometime in 8th grade when i realized that i didn’t just admire this guy, i wanted to go out with him.

    i got jealous when he jokingly flirted with guys, but at the same time hoped that he was hinting that he was queer and not just joking around.

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    RicoPeru rico @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    !RicoSuave@feddit.cl - main for general and mainly Spanish content

    !RicoPeru3@lemmings.world - general for English content not accessible thru main

    this account is mainly for posting lgbt content not accessible thru other accs.

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    :)

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