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I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA.
  • Usually we just talk about life and whatever. I reconnected with him after finding his profile online after he messaged me.

  • I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA.
  • He calls me one and he's nice to me, so possibly

  • I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA.
  • Definitely not. Even if I thought he was annoying due to his autism and such, I grew up and it's definitely not his fault how I chose to react to his autism

  • I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA.
  • I mean, I've talked to him in high school about how he was so annoying and I defended people who bullied him, but since then, we haven't talked about that. I don't like engaging in deep discussion, unfortunately

  • transmasc, felt dysphoria ever since around age 7-8. ama.
  • What exactly did the dysphoria feel like?

  • I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA.

    I bullied him back when he was in the closet/a girl in high school for being nerdy. As we grew up, we became friends and I discovered he was a guy now. He’s pretty cool :)

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    My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • I'm sure it will. I'm now friends with the girl I bullied in high school, who is a trans man now.

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • She said we probably wouldn't talk for a while and she needs to process things, but she understands

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • Like, a year and a half. I used to like people for personality. I thought I did, but I only like the personality of a man. That is to say, I thought I didn't care about gender and just liked personality, but in reality, I only like men and don't care about appearance of men.

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • It was very good, thanks so much. She said we probably wouldn't talk for a while as she processes the breakup

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • Thank you! Maybe,

    Hey, L,

    I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel. Remember that as you continue your journey, though, I'll be here as your friend to support you.

    I hope you understand, E 🙂

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • Hey, L,

    I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

    I hope you understand, E 🙂

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?
  • I wrote:

    Hey, L,

    I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

    I hope you understand, E 🙂

  • My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite?

    I'm not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don't like women without her taking it the wrong way.

    I wrote:

    Hey, L,

    I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

    I hope you understand, E 🙂

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