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  • I expect I'm coming from a different moral framework than yours, and I don't expect to be able to change your mind, but do allow me to suggest that while a divorce might not be the worst thing in the world, it's also not a good thing. So far as it's up to you, be a man (person?) of your word if you promise to love until death do you part, or don't promise in the first place.

    I wish you all the best.

  • (Great writing for a rant that you didn't proof-read. I especially like the LaTeX-like emdashes.)

    No-one should tell you what to do. You need to decide yourself what you want, and then stick to it. I have no idea how you'll do four years long distance when you're already having trouble after one. But if you decide she's The One for you and she feels the same about you, then stay the course and maybe attempt to make your relationship more permanent (marriage) which might solve some of the problems (or make them worse if you're not both committed to it). If she's not The One then better to split earlier than later, IMO --- you're not married so go your separate ways. It's great that you care about her and are worried about how she will fare without you, but if you're not both committed to the relationship then you can't make it work and she will have to fend for herself.

  • You can find instructions online for stretches and exercises, but that doesn't hold my interest. I bit the bullet and joined a gym, going a couple of times a week to keep loose. Maybe I could do the stuff I do there at home (after purchasing some equipment), but I think the environment is worth the expense. I don't talk to anyone else except to greet the staff, but I like the fact that other people are around and it's a space dedicated to working out.