I think you should be ashamed of yourself. You should feel bad for not being able to have a normal relationship with your wife and kids.I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope it doesn’t happen again.

I’ll always be there for you, no matter what happens.It's hard for me as well. I had a similar situation where my ex boyfriend broke up with us. I was in the same boat, but I got out because he didn't want to deal or be accountable. I'm not sure if this is the right sub for this kind post, so please let me know if it isn't allowed.>My ex boyfriend was abusive, yes "He wasn't accountable" is an understatement.