Ukraine backs US strikes on Iran, calling for similar stance with Russia

Israel also supplied Drones to Russia after the Crimea invasion, didn't join sanctions and as reported by an Ukrainian official demanded Ukraine to surrender behind closed doors.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Israel%E2%80%93Russia_relations

Now with the US getting itself dragged into another Iraq style war by Israel, Ukraine could suffer in two major ways:

1. Western military aid will be cut short in favor of Israel and US
2. The rising energy prices will lead to Russia's strained warchest to replenish and could even lead to EU countries easing sanctions to buy oil and gas from Russia again.

Ukraine is being played by the US and Israel but either plays along because Zelensky is high on Zionism or because Ukraine by now is owned by the US and he has to say everything Trump wants him to say. Either way this is bad for the Ukrainian people and it is delusional to think that anyone in the West would feel emboldened now to bomb Russia.

This whole world war 3 bullshittery is hurting my brain

That is what Russia is calling its actions in Ukraine and your description of bombing and terrorizing Civilians both is true for Israel/US genocide in Gaza and the recent attacks on Iran, which have killed hundred of Civilians and hit hospitals, schools, journalists...

Ukraines government is either so backed against the wall or stupid to embrace these actions by Israel and the US, by which it legitimizes similar attacks on Ukrainian civilians.

But Ukraine is not "part of the club". Before the fullscale Russian invasion a lot of western sentiment was basically Ukraine being the same as Russia and part of "the other". And when the war eventually ends, the same will happen again quickly. The sad reality is that Ukraine has very little "friends" on the geopolitical stage.