GayBros @lemmy.world goldstarbussy @lemmy.world 3w ago

I'm in my 40s, recently opened my marriage

and I'm seeing a young guy who is sexy af and i totally feel like a teenager. And i feel blessed that i am experiencing this and I can tell my husband about it. I just need to say it.

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You only have one life and if the man concerned in the situation is happy and supportive about it, just go for it and be happy
Update: we just had another magical date. We went for a workout together and then breakfast. Talking about relationships, sex, consent, trust.
Hell yeah dude! :)
Good luck brother! You said "young guy". What is the age difference?
- He's around 15 years younger.
  
  How do you deal with that age difference? I have a crush (gym crush) that is around 14 years younger than me. However, I don't approach him and I am quite apprehensive of doing so because of the age difference. We do say "hi" to each other and he does seem somewhat interested in talking to me.
Update: another date. Lot's of kissing and hugging. I could feel his hard on through the clothes.
Update: we had another date. It was kind of a beach date so we for really close, physically. We held hands, touched each other's skin. We also talked about fears and boundaries. We talked about sex. We got emotional.

We know we're living something special, and I think that the key is that both of us have partners and have a very open and calm approach to this. There is no rush, there are no expectations, no intent of being the one but being friends, close friends, that kiss and may end up in bed. That kind of friends.

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