tired of being not enough yet just a paycheck.
tired of being not enough yet just a paycheck.
hi
tired of being not enough yet just a paycheck.
hi
So what keeps you there?
i honestly think it’s hope things will change and money. i adore my (adult now) stepkids too. sigh.
Just because you divorce, your wife doesn't mean you divorce your kids.
This is really above the paygrade of randos on the internet, but if you're looking for internet rando advice start with what you said here:
when I was worth being attracted to even.
We don't know exactly what you're lacking now that you had then, but you clearly have a good idea. Make the changes you are capable of in yourself first. I'm not talking about suddenly looking like a movie star. Thats unrealistic even for the best of us. What I mean is: be worth it in your deeds an actions.
Notes:
Be the person you know you can be that is worth being attracted to. I know you can do this!
Cut your losses and get out. I was in a toxic marriage for over 20 years and it almost killed me. I'm single now, and much happier. It gets better.