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I have to do it all by myself.","removed":false,"published":"2025-05-12T19:14:58.610534Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://programming.dev/comment/16879374","local":false,"path":"0.14376762","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":16409743,"name":"KernelTale","banned":false,"published":"2025-03-12T13:25:54.553661Z","actor_id":"https://programming.dev/u/KernelTale","local":false,"deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":79126},"post":{"id":25884774,"name":"egg🪞irl","url":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/1c0a6015-8ad9-4223-87b2-0193a374db24.webp","body":"Posting _I Want to be a Cute Anime Girl_ almost feels like cheating","creator_id":13495053,"community_id":4564,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-05-12T18:55:49.304470Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/25884774","local":true,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false,"alt_text":""},"community":{"id":4564,"name":"egg_irl","title":"egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics","description":"# !egg_irl\n\n!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.\n\nIf you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.\n\n**General Rules:**\n\n1. 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(is a German thing I think. means: Feminine, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Transgender, Agender. onli the most comf peeps <3 )\n- u cn dress how u wan without havin to to explain *why ur wearin it*, cuz ur a grl! grls cn wear whatever they wan, n r not to be questioned! ~ father wud never bat an eye if u were jus magically a grl! <3\n- u cn sit, stand, walk, lie down, all thad, without feelin uncomf... uncomf sloppery meat hangin about, makin u feel pain for no reason\n- u cn finalli watch those cool series ur online frens recommend to u, but hav been puttin off cuz they mek u uncomf ur not them -\n- u cn be pretti lil bakery grl who bakes muffins n shares them with peeps! <3 oh thad be sooo cool!! <3 <3 <3\n- evn when uncomf horni feelins come - u cn jus... be *more* fine with em, cuz theyr not physically mekin u u comf, harder to walk, n jus... ew lookin ;(\n- u cn hav adult thoughts without feelin incredibli awfulli disgustin n ew for evri thought u hav...\n- u cn walk normlli without feelin need to hide body cuz - ur a grl for peet sake - u got nothin to hide! ur jus - pretti! <3 theres no reason to hide... unless evil peeps... want u... which is bad ;(\n\nyesyes bein grl wud be such a genuine.... callin it \"game changer\" is an underatatent, so i call it \"life changer\".\n\nyea, lets call it thad.\n\nbein a grl wud be such a genuine life changer, its crazy. u wud focus mor on future cuz now u get to be a grl in the future! <3 u cn focus on ur health cuz u get to be a healthy grl if u do! <3 <3 <3 u cn learn n get smart, cuz if u do, u r a smart grl! <3 👩👓📖🧠 u cn hav frens, cuz then u r a grl in the fren group! u cn make YouTube videos, cuz then peeps watchin kno, thad ur a grl, cuz of ur voice. ur a cool YouTube grl then! <3 :o\n\nyis. thad wud be biggest life changer of all time.\n\nno moni in wrorld would i rather take than dis. no \"love ofy life\" wud i give up for dis. no. those things crumble in value if i hav to remain a guy as a tradeoff. thads not worth it. onli things i wud trade it for wud be world peace n hungr n stuff. 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No bigotry.\n\n2. No spam, bots, or vote farming.\n\n**Rules on Content:**\n\n3. No reposts.\n\n4. No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, \"trans/not trans\" lists, picrew, or non-memes.\n\n5. No visible names or usernames.\n\n6. Do not post or link to pornography.\n\n**Rules on Post Titles and Tags:**\n\n7. Posts must be titled \"egg_irl\". An emoji or two is OK, but they have to be between \"egg\" and \"irl\".\n\n8. Posts that assume the viewer's gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Transmasc]`\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]`\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Nonbinary]`\n * `[CW: Transphobia]`\n * `[CW: Violence]`\n * `[CW: Weapons/Firearms]`\n * `[CW: Disturbing Imagery]`\n * `[CW: Fictional Egging]`\n\n9. 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I'm a boy and I'm super cute and fem. Almost never present masculine at all.","removed":false,"published":"2025-05-14T21:17:34.767344Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.ca/comment/16531047","local":false,"path":"0.14408645","distinguished":false,"language_id":0},"creator":{"id":1944011,"name":"PowerfulTurtle","banned":false,"published":"2023-08-06T21:18:15.325401Z","actor_id":"https://lemmy.ca/u/PowerfulTurtle","local":false,"deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":106},"post":{"id":25884774,"name":"egg🪞irl","url":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/1c0a6015-8ad9-4223-87b2-0193a374db24.webp","body":"Posting _I Want to be a Cute Anime Girl_ almost feels like cheating","creator_id":13495053,"community_id":4564,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-05-12T18:55:49.304470Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/25884774","local":true,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false,"alt_text":""},"community":{"id":4564,"name":"egg_irl","title":"egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics","description":"# !egg_irl\n\n!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.\n\nIf you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.\n\n**General Rules:**\n\n1. No bigotry.\n\n2. No spam, bots, or vote farming.\n\n**Rules on Content:**\n\n3. No reposts.\n\n4. No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, \"trans/not trans\" lists, picrew, or non-memes.\n\n5. No visible names or usernames.\n\n6. Do not post or link to pornography.\n\n**Rules on Post Titles and Tags:**\n\n7. Posts must be titled \"egg_irl\". An emoji or two is OK, but they have to be between \"egg\" and \"irl\".\n\n8. Posts that assume the viewer's gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Transmasc]`\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]`\n * `[CW: Assumes Viewer is Nonbinary]`\n * `[CW: Transphobia]`\n * `[CW: Violence]`\n * `[CW: Weapons/Firearms]`\n * `[CW: Disturbing Imagery]`\n * `[CW: Fictional Egging]`\n\n9. You may optionally include other tags, such as:\n * `[Transmasc Meme]`\n * `[Transfem Meme]`\n * `[Nonbinary Meme]`\n * `[Gender-Nonspecific Meme]`\n\n**Rules on Post Text:**\n\n10. If possible, include an image description for accessibility.\n\n11. Add sources for art.\n\n**Rules on Comments**\n\n12. If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.\n\n13. You must follow the Egg Prime Directive. You may not push or coerce people into identifying or not identifying a certain way. You must respect them as the gender they claim to identify as. In addition it is extremely in poor taste to make assumptions about other people's identities based on external factors, we understand it cannot be helped but it is best not to as it can affect the way you treat others in noticeable ways. Read more about this decision [here](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21714055).\n\n14. 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They should take your self-disclosure at face value without gatekeeping or criticism. If the people who say they love you aren't doing that, they aren't treating you with the respect you deserve. ","removed":false,"published":"2025-05-12T23:24:16.183384Z","updated":"2025-05-12T23:24:38.696601Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/14379752","local":true,"path":"0.14376840.14379752","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":13793582,"name":"SuperNovaStar","avatar":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/8fb61dba-b288-431b-b21e-8313047604e9.webp","banned":false,"published":"2024-11-12T16:50:51.630819Z","actor_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/SuperNovaStar","bio":"Please feel free to shoot me a message on Matrix. 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a girl who should probably transition asap","removed":false,"published":"2025-05-12T22:41:15.943265Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/14379328","local":true,"path":"0.14376840.14379328","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":13495053,"name":"TotallynotJessica","avatar":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/c9396507-e4cb-4010-ad48-d97906f43c40.webp","banned":false,"published":"2024-10-30T04:51:10.896598Z","actor_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/TotallynotJessica","bio":"I swear I’m not Jessica\n\nblahaj.zone account for [@TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world](https://lemmy.world/u/TotallynotJessica) ","local":true,"banner":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/08d3e9fc-efde-4ca1-8c72-68ef278479da.webp","deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":171},"post":{"id":25884774,"name":"egg🪞irl","url":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/pictrs/image/1c0a6015-8ad9-4223-87b2-0193a374db24.webp","body":"Posting _I Want to be a Cute Anime Girl_ almost feels like cheating","creator_id":13495053,"community_id":4564,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-05-12T18:55:49.304470Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/25884774","local":true,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false,"alt_text":""},"community":{"id":4564,"name":"egg_irl","title":"egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics","description":"# !egg_irl\n\n!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.\n\nIf you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.\n\n**General Rules:**\n\n1. 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[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!nonbinary@lemmy.one](/c/nonbinary@lemmy.one) (or search for [https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary](https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org](/c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org) (or search for [https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus](https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone](/c/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone) (or search for [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n\n**Community Resources:**\n\n* [The Trevor Project](https://www.thetrevorproject.org/) / [1-866-488-7386](tel:+18664887386) — A US-based crisis prevention and intervention hotline and community\n* [TransLifeLine](https://translifeline.org/) / [1-877-565-8860](tel:+18775658860) — A 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You may optionally include other tags, such as:\n * `[Transmasc Meme]`\n * `[Transfem Meme]`\n * `[Nonbinary Meme]`\n * `[Gender-Nonspecific Meme]`\n\n**Rules on Post Text:**\n\n10. If possible, include an image description for accessibility.\n\n11. Add sources for art.\n\n**Rules on Comments**\n\n12. If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.\n\n13. You must follow the Egg Prime Directive. You may not push or coerce people into identifying or not identifying a certain way. You must respect them as the gender they claim to identify as. In addition it is extremely in poor taste to make assumptions about other people's identities based on external factors, we understand it cannot be helped but it is best not to as it can affect the way you treat others in noticeable ways. Read more about this decision [here](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/21714055).\n\n14. 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[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!nonbinary@lemmy.one](/c/nonbinary@lemmy.one) (or search for [https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary](https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org](/c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org) (or search for [https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus](https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n* [!lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone](/c/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone) (or search for [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus](https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus) in [your instance](/search) if the link doesn't work)\n\n**Community Resources:**\n\n* [The Trevor Project](https://www.thetrevorproject.org/) / [1-866-488-7386](tel:+18664887386) — A US-based crisis prevention and intervention hotline and community\n* [TransLifeLine](https://translifeline.org/) / [1-877-565-8860](tel:+18775658860) — A 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