do u decide to have a mental breakdown? do you decide to take a violent shit? or do the lifes of two people without real agency coalesce in a way that will change both of them forever?
Men have urinals to piss and toilets to shit. Very rigorous organisation of the shit+piss division of labor.
Women have toilets to piss due to their inferior anatomy that doesn't include the penis.
BUT! Where do they shit? Well they don't because they don't have an appropriate shitting device, and it has been rumored for a long time that girls don't shit.
Same goes for mental breakdowns. Men have their mental breakdowns at the designated mental breakdown apparatus (Wendy's counter). Women? They don't have one.
I've told this story before but years ago(probably 2 if not 3 decades ago) I liked a song where a guy made sounds like "ohh bada bada bop ba" instead of actually singing. The only real line he sang that I remembered was "I'm the scat man"... So I went on to kazza, yes this was that long ago, and found a video called "scat man" and downloaded it... I hope I don't have to explain it was NOT a music video!