Probably many women are now complaining because they didn't have to approach - they could get guys by just waiting. These two groups of women, those complaining about being approached and those complaining that they aren't being approached, are two different groups with little overlap.
At the same time, not having to approach was a privilege while being approached without wanting it was an infringement.
I think it's much better that women who are just trying to enjoy their nights are spared some drunk person trying to solicit sex or a date from them. Conversely, I don't really think women having to face rejection is as big a deal.
I rarely leave the house because of the ābut I just want to be friendsā or the ācomplimentā or the looks, or the honkingā¦ itās disgusting. And it never stops. So I donāt go out, when I do go out I donāt go alone and make the extra effort to look and shit as possible. I wish I could live in a world where I could feel save to wear the clothes I want and to go out when I wantā¦ or be invisible, that would be cool.
Even when Iām with my husband and father men approach me likeā¦ ew, and when they notice Iām accompanied by men the back pedal so fast.
Yeah but the men who are leaving women alone are the same men who should be leaving women alone? Or is it decent men who have taken a hint while douchebags will continue being douchebags?